High all captive friends. I am a self locker who has been playing on and off for the last 10 years. I am married, but like many of you out there, the Missus is not too open to this lifestyle. I have tried on many occasions, but she just cannot get with the programme. Probably to note that I am an Asian and so is the Missus. So a whole lot more conservative. I started my latest self lock up last week. The Missus is not so vehemently against chastity, but she wants no part of why I prefer to lock myself. She is content to hold on to the key as would any other key that I hand over to her. You may call her a "Passive Keyholder". But I guess coming from a conservative society, thats the best I can hope for. The question I have for the group is this: I have heard differing views on which underwear is best when locked. I am comfortable in boxers but feel that tighter briefs rather uncomfortable as it tends to fold everything downwards. I have heard people comment that this would be more comfortable and give more support to the balls. How important/true is this? Is there any danger to having your testicles swing free when not dressed up at home? I hope to hear from all. tklh21
I agree with this, especially if you do any kind of athletic activity or walk a lot as a part of your job or whatnot. I've worn thongs for years anyway, but the way they fit makes wearing a cage much more manageable when I run or bike.
I can see that tighter is probably better, keeping it in place. However, I only wear boxers, and it hasn't been a problem.