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    #51 Elfman, Mar 13, 2024
    It's definitely a fun fantasy but the reality is much more challenging. It's not for everyone and that's okay.
     
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    #52 PornAddict103, Mar 13, 2024
    I'm starting to realize that now... My original purpose for getting into chastity was to just stop myself from constantly jerking off and not necessarily to stop entirely. Wanting to go as long as I possibly can became a fantasy when I discovered how great it felt to wanna jerk off and not be able to.

    So, yeah... Maybe I bit off more than I can chew. No pun intended.
     
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    #53 PornAddict103, Mar 13, 2024
    Thinking further on this… I haven’t decided anything yet, but I’m leaning more towards “Keep denying myself orgasm until I feel I’m close to going over the edge” and then getting release. My last session pushed me over that edge but I remember how I felt just before things got to that point. Maybe I can use that as my alarm bell.
     
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    #54 Sherrie’sPleasure, Mar 13, 2024
    Have you ever thought about… What if… She doesn’t want you released or to orgasm when you think it’s time… What will you do then?
    Enjoy the ride and the journey!
     
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    #55 Sherrie’sPleasure, Mar 13, 2024
    Our personal longest has me to be caged 101 days… Only out or cleanings once a week and continue denial until she wants penetration. I get at least a milking every couple weeks and or a blowjob once a month. She has multiple orgasms weekly while I get denied.
    Started a new caging 24 days ago with one blowjob and continue edging these past 24 days only out once a week for cleaning.
    Our cage of choice is HTv4 with 40mm Nub Sleeve and 45mm Ring.
     
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    #56 PornAddict103, Mar 13, 2024
    There is no “she”… At least not yet. :p
     
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    #57 Sherrie’sPleasure, Mar 13, 2024
    Having a keyholder and it being a girlfriend, lover, wife changes, everything you no longer have control… it takes it to a totally new level!
     
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    #58 PornAddict103, Mar 13, 2024
    Not arguing with that, but I currently live in a shared residence so it won’t work. Hopefully things will change but now isn’t the right time.
     
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    #59 Sherrie’sPleasure, Mar 13, 2024
    I see… Now I understand your situation… Good luck with your journey
     
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    #60 PornAddict103, Mar 13, 2024
    Thank you. :cool:
     
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    #61 PornAddict103, Mar 14, 2024
    A conversation came up among the staff at work last night, about the weather swinging between warm and freezing in the extreme as of late... Co-workers complained that it's keeping them up at night, making them fatigued and even feeling ill in the day time. I told them I'm on the same boat as they are as I've been having trouble sleeping at night and it's really screwing up my system. I told them I take vitamins in the morning to help my immune system (I got sick too often before I started taking them) and I've really cut down on the junk food and sweet treats. Wish I could say the same for my coffee intake, but I kinda need that to keep going through the day.

    So, it's becoming more clear that conditions beyond my control are a contributing to my not-so-well being. And I'm starting to wonder about something... Every time I get an orgasm, out of the cage or in it, I always get a Testosterone crash and my energies are depleted for several days to a week, so if I get an orgasm anytime soon, then if the weather keeps going haywire like it's been, then I might be asking for real trouble.

    Now, don't get the wrong idea. I'm not looking for an excuse to keep myself locked up to the point of getting desperate again... I'm just trying to make sense of all this and it's evident that the stupid weather swings in my town are at least partially to blame for me not getting enough sleep and feeling down overall.
     
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    #62 CS2, Mar 14, 2024
    We are coming up to the end of the winter 6ish long months of crap weather, minimal day light, I feel terrible at this point in the year, cant wait for it to get better!
     
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    #63 PornAddict103, Mar 14, 2024
    Amen to that! I was always a summer guy... I sometimes tell people that if I were forced to move to the Sahara Desert, I wouldn't complain.
     
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    #64 Elfman, Mar 14, 2024
    This is true. I've gotten to the point where I'm over having an online keyholder. I miss the days of a real relationship.
     
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    #65 Sherrie’sPleasure, Mar 14, 2024
    You will think yourself in a long run, my friend,
     
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    #66 Elfman, Mar 15, 2024
    The dating pool for a gay man is much smaller than most people. It's quite difficult to find someone into kink.
     
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    #67 IB-Chaste, Mar 15, 2024
    Lies! My experience on Grindr tells me otherwise! There is literally sex laid out on a plate… all different types too.
    Where as with women it’s the thrill of the chase, I found with men I was routinely turning people down. One situation I recall fulfilled every fantasy I had as long as he could perform bareback.
    No thank you. Next.
     
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    #68 Elfman, Mar 15, 2024
    I said "dating" not "hookup".
     
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    #69 IB-Chaste, Mar 15, 2024
    I feel you have a misconception that a relationship doesn’t start with sexual attraction.

    I met a guy on there for drinks once. He’s still one of my best friends.

    Met another guy for a hook-up. That happened, then again, and some more times. Learned a lot from him. We were together for a few months.

    Even away from Grindr, once there was this girl. On our second date I got a bj. The third we slept together. The fourth I stayed overnight… 7 years later and we’re happily married with kids.

    I think dating is lovely… yet let’s be real. If you’re not physically attracted to someone then what’s the point? If they’re not at the same sexual level as yourself it’s not going anywhere either.
    See it for what it is. It’s no BS dating,
     
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    #70 PornAddict103, Mar 15, 2024
    SCRAM!!!

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    #72 PornAddict103, Mar 16, 2024
    Well, I got some great news! Last night, I unlocked myself for a cleaning, but after I got out of the shower, I was so tired that I just put the cage on my nightstand and crashed out on the bed. Slept the whole night without waking up once and I feel AWESOME this morning! :D:+1::D

    Of course I put the cage back on first thing upon getting out of bed. Going to work today feeling revitalized. :cool:
     
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    #73 PornAddict103, Mar 16, 2024
    I'm definitely staying locked up tonight and all day tomorrow at least, because I got BOMBARDED with "visual stimulation" for literally my entire work shift today and I really wanna jerk off BADLY right now!

    This post will tell you what I'm talking about:
    Lucky, unlucky or just plain funny?
     
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    #74 madams-sissysub, Mar 18, 2024
    Glad you got a good nights sleep! It really does do wonders!
     
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    #75 PornAddict103, Mar 18, 2024
    Yeah, I think that's all I really need to stay locked without orgasm for as long as I want and not literally go insane from it. But I'm only 2 and a half weeks in, so time truly will tell. I'm doing pretty good so far, so here's hoping. :pray:
     
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