After a day (including sleeping locked up) of experiencing chastity here are my thoughts. I got my device (The Asylum from Extreme Restraints) yesterday and put it on. Its a pure steel cage-like thing. After researching like crazy it already felt familiar to me. The initial thought was how heavy and bulky it was (being made of steel). I liked that. The CB6000 or any of these plastic style ones don't look hardcore enough for me. Getting it on was tricky because I started getting hard at the idea of wearing it. Eventually I got it on including the urethral insert (also completely new to me). Immediately it felt like a new sensation: being unable to touch my cock was weird. I found myself squeezing the cage but being solid steel it doesn't give. I walked around my home for some minutes. The gentle clinking of the padlock amused me. I just went about my day at home (having finished work already) and while I was preoccupied with reading and a bit of gaming I was never unaware of being locked up. Is that normal? I guess so. Then I went out to have a beer with some friends while wearing it (though I took the key with me). It felt like a massive inside joke that only the inside of my head knew about. It doesn't show through jeans at all but I did find myself rubbing the cage under the table and through my jeans. The great thing is that the metal bars feel so solid. Almost like ribs or something. The next step? So far I like how it feels enough. The next step I'm thinking is to test it out long-term. A week to begin with. And also to wear it in occasions where it would be most shocking. Dinner with friends. Gym. I still have zero intention of telling anyone of this in real life but eventually I'd like to find an online keyholder. That idea sounds exactly like the right direction.