A New Beginning, Mayhaps?

Earlier posting in introduction
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Thanks for this website! Let this be known as an introduction.

We have been married over 30 years now, kids have grown and moved away. We are blessed to have some rather kinky friends that are into various things. Before we were married, in fact way before that very early in the relationship I confessed to MK that I had an interest in spanking and Fem Dom. Figured if that was a deal breaker do it early right? We started out a little slowly and there were some up and down points to it, not to mention child-rearing which naturally takes precedence. But in betwixt life happening she administered many spankings, paddlings and the like. We have accumulated a nice collection of whips, floggers (she is really good at florentine flogging) cuffs, pretty much name it. We would play some when we could, but it's not like it was a daily occurrence either. On 3 occasions she sent me to a Pro-Dom for additional 'correction.'

I told her many years ago I was intrigued by the thought of Hotwife/cuckolding. She thought that was a little out there, although she took an interest in a few other men nothing ever evolved from it, save some good conversation. I also have a huge stocking and shoe fetish. I also like to wear panties and/or pantyhose on occasion. However, I should point out she does not like cross-dressing at all, she says she married a man and wants me to be manly.

Perhaps 10 years ago after much persuasion on my part we began to attend swinger events. She was reluctant at first and still is to an extent. If you or anyone you know is in the swinging LS they can tell you that it sounds like you're getting laid all the time but that's not reality at all, and there are a lot of bullshit artists and straight-up predators in the LS. Finding a good match is hard. And she is extremely picky about who she will play with.

More recently though we have become more interested in Hotwifing. Part of her reluctance in the swing arena was likely that she didn't like seeing me with someone more attractive (in her eyes at least) than she was. Ergo her having the ability to play whilst I was on the sidelines was pretty damned exciting for us both. We attend many swinger "Meet-n-greets" and since we live near a large city we have become acquainted with several couples and singles in the LS.

At a few of the M&G's she would tell me things like, 'OOh, you know SoandSo? If I had the chance I would do him.' There were 4 or 5 I can think of recently who she has spoken of in those terms. So here's what I arranged a few weeks ago and it was a long time putting it together. One of the fellows she identified. I approached him and told him of a specific fantasy and would he like to be a part? Here is the fantasy- she would be in a room-blindfolded. He would come in, they would have sex, he would leave and do it all in such a way that his identity would remain a secret. Getting her to agree took some prodding maybe because she didn't think I could make it happen. But - we were able to pull it off! MK and I were in the room, she was dressed, well, nicely and blindfolded, he came and knocked on the door, I let him in and before long I was pushed out of the scene, told to wait outside, I was distracting her - and they made out for over an hour! Obviously she's had sex with other men many times in fact but this was the first time she wanted me to not be there. It was an exciting time for all.

To the best of my knowledge she still does not know his identity. As an aside I think he is hoping the secret will be unveiled sooner rather than later because he want's another helping. At any rate. We did a little role-play on the afternoon of the hotel rendezvous. She told me, 'I'm going out with my girlfriends tonite' (wink wink) It was fun helping her pick out a sexy outfit, and when she got in the car to leave I acted like I was her date instead of her husband. I'd say things like, 'Do you think your husband knows?' She would reply, I told him I was going out with friends. He wants me to fuck other guys anyway.' This role-play continued on the way home from the hotel, I said 'Do you think he will figure it out?' She said, 'Wait until he eats my pussy then he will figure it out!' I then said (remember we are in role-play) "you know, you should be a little more firm with him. He's probably in front of the computer watching porn and masturbating. You should make him buy an MCD. Not only that but you should tell him next time he's in your panty drawer (not really but I do have a pair or two of pantyhose) you are gonna beat his ass. Matter of fact you should make him wear a pantyhose and whip the cowboy shit out of him. I mean, if he wants to wear clothes like a bitch you should treat him like a little bitch.' She gave some reservations about the sissy aspect to it, but I said Hey. You're not making him less of a man you are making him MORE of one. He needs a little direction in some areas, like time management, organization, attention to you, maybe a better bedtime schedule and discipline in diet, exercise and the like. You have a tremendous amount of power at your disposal, you should use it.

Well, I 'dropped her off" in our garage, we had the most passionate kiss we'd had in awhile. Then awesome sex., best in a long time. We talked about the night in great detail, how she gave oral, how he came inside of her, how does that taste by the way?

A few days later she told me to order an MCD, I bought a CB 6000 and gave it to her. She has not put it on as of yet. However, last night she had me come into the bedroom, she lightly caressed my balls and before long I was milking! I had to help finish with my other hand but it was glorious! After which, she said "I hope you enjoyed that, you'll not be getting to cum for awhile. I might lock you up for a year!" Like a smartass I said, You won't be able to go a year without sex!. She replied, "I won't have to!" (Emphasis on the I)

Anyways. I have wanted to be locked for some time now, and wanted her to freely fuck other guys for some time now too, It looks like both may happen. I have been thinking about the psychology of hearing the click on the lock to your cock, and therefore complete loss of control. Someone help me there. One last thing she told me yesterday was, "You had better not wimp out on me. You need to be strong"

 

Oh this is really happening! She sent me out yesterday for a full Brazilian waxing which should’ve been my first clue. I wasn’t sure when the lockup would happen, nor do I know for how long. There’s something I was always wondering about - what I would think hearing the lock snap shut. I have no key. She alone will determine when I’m let out and for how long. I remember the admonishment from her: DON’T WIMP OUT. The “Or else” is implied of course. I’ve wanted this for a long, long time, I could go back I suppose but I would never be able to ask to have this fulfilled ever again. It’s a little scary tho. It took awhile to put it on. Pinched a lot, I got a bit of a stuffy so it took a few minutes for that to subside. Anyone who’s ever had sex with a woman and had her say “Don’t cum!!” Knows what I’m talking about as far as making a stiff cock limp. I hear the device snap shut. She looks at me, cocks one eyebrow slightly as if to say, “Be careful what you wish for mister. I’m in charge now.” And so she is. She tells me I’m not going to get to cum for awhile. “Awhile” is not a clear definition. How long will she keep me locked up? I’d better be in her good graces, will do about anything to keep her happy.


She hands me a shopping list. The usual grocery store items, it will be 3 stores, not including getting gas and money at the bank so 5. I am summarily dismissed. This is already feeling different.


Random thoughts whilst on my first foray. Oooh. This thing is uncomfortable. Actually it’s not too bad standing, sitting is a bit of a bitch. I’m trying to get her favorite brands, trying hard to not waste time. Feeling a little enslaved. Feeling good! I have to pee. Go the the restroom, I now need to pee sitting down. Say what? True. Takes awhile to clean my own pee from the device. This is going to be different.

I finish the list. Bring everything back, feeling good. Bring everything in, I’m putting it all away, whilst her nails are drying. She would usually do all this, I would at least help. This time its different. All my job! I get it all put away. We go outside chat a bit. I am getting a little sore, this is only the first day, right? Hurts a bit more than I thought tho.


Something odd just happened. I get permission to go to the bathroom, I look - somehow the device has slipped off! I think about it a minute, the best thing to do is fess up. Surprisingly she is not too peeved. However she doesn’t want to be bothered putting it back on- I’m ordered to take a length of rope and tie it around by ballsack and cinch it up. I do, it’s tighter than the MCD. She glances at the movie options on Hulu. Notices “Brokeback Mountain” Tells me we need to watch it together, perhaps some ideas? Oh, my. I ask for and receive permission to be excused.


She then tells me we are going out to eat tonight- seafood. I am not a fan, but it is her favorite. Gosh my balls hurt. In fact that whole area sore from yesterday’s waxing by a semi-sadistic somewhat disgruntled English as a second language Chinese woman.

Fuck. My balls really hurt. Really hurt.

 

So this past Saturday. Now, we had been in the swinging lifestyle for several years which sounds like you're getting laid all the time. For those of us in the know, that's not reality- it's much more difficult than you can imagine finding a suitable match where everyone is happy. But I'm new to THIS.....

So she locks me up, and off we are - to a swinger's party. There are probably 40-50 people most are friendly but nearly all are a good deal younger than us. Keep in mind I'm locked, and we're walking around this pool party, I feel like a little kid in a candy store. There's plenty of candy- but of course, I don't have the keys to the castle. After mingling a bit, the wife finds a tall rather well built guy that quite a number of the ladies are eyeing. She goes over to him, I'm standing a distance away but now she is openly flirting with him and there's little doubt of her intentions. A few minutes later she comes up to me and says, "We're going to play. Would you please get my bag?" Where all her 'toys' such as condoms, lubes and the like are contained.

Before you know it she is in the bedroom with him, and the door is closed. I know I'm not invited in. Damn it sure would be nice to do a MFM right about now, I'm thinking. (We've done that more than a few times) They are in a long time, 30-45 minutes perhaps but if felt like an eternity.

They finally exit the room- she is all smiles. She tells me she came 8 times, and even squirted! The thing she enjoyed the most- there were several women that were waiting for the chance to "do" this guy but she was the one taking the initiative. Oh, and he was 20-25 years younger than she. We get back home she talks about it plenty- how she sucked him, he went down on her, all of it. When we arrived home I was hoping for a little reclaim sex but she said she was too sore. I would not be surprised at that actually. A quick release, self masturbation then it was back to being locked up.

I'm surprised by how much she is enjoying this.