I am currently locked in a CB6000S by my keyholder (my girlfriend) and in this journal / blog I intend to write a bit about our experiences and my thoughts. In this first post I will just outline how we got to this point. I have been interested in chastity for a long time but it was never something I had explored with another person before but I had tried various self-locking methods such as using emlalock etc. My girlfriend had never heard of any of this before but after some time I decided to bring it up to her, she is the first person I had ever spoke to this about. I was nervous but with her I felt confident in our connection, trust and shared love that I could bring it up. I think initially it was a lot for her to take in and it doesn't help that the CB6000 is not exactly the nicest thing to look at and with all the connecting bits it is very fiddly looking. I was delighted that her reaction was supportive and did nothing to make me feel bad about what I had shared. We tried it on and off a few times but I don't think at the beginning it clicked that much for either of us, I loved that we were trying it though. It was a while ago now but I believe there was a fairly long break of us not trying it at all and then I think it was my GF who brought up that I should wear it again. Since then things have moved pretty quickly! I am now locked up all of the time that I am not with her, which as we are currently long distance means usually a couple of weeks at a time. My last run in chastity was 10 days and I think the current run may be 15 or 16 days though it is entirely her decision so it could be less or more. My GF had no experience or knowledge of being a KH but she does it incredibly, it really amazes me how quickly she has come into her stride. It is incredibly exciting to know that whilst I have my idea of what I might like to happen it is not up to me, it is up to her to decide what we do in the future. She may decide that I don't need to wear the cage for a month or that I get to cum every week. Or maybe she decides I always need to wear the cage and she only takes it off when she wants. She might decide I only get ruined orgasms for a month. I don't know what she will decide, which makes it incredibly exciting. I believe I try my best not to push her to do something or to top from the bottom, as much as possible I want it to be her that decides what she likes and does not like. Most importantly what makes it wonderful is I get to share it with her.