I have dabbled in chastity in the past. On and off just play here and there. Most of the woman I have been with weren’t that interested except for a little sex play once in a while. After a break up a few years ago I was talking to a friend via text about how my life was going. We texted a few times a week then not at all. She’s married and has children. One night we were texting and I drunkenly asked her if she would ever consider being someone’s key holder. She had no idea what I was talking about. She thought I was talking about holding my spare house keys. After I explained to her she said oh no that was not something she would be interested in. The next day I apologized and explained I was a little tipsy. A few weeks later she brought it up and asked me if it was me I was talking about. I wasn’t sure what to say and hesitated to answer but then she said because if it was I would be interested. A lot has happened since then. She is still happily married. I am locked in chastity for long periods because that’s what she wants and it’s hard for her to get away. She has really acclimated to the role of key holder though, most recently changing my cage to a smaller version saying “the smaller the better “. The relationship has evolved further, but that’s a discussion for another time. This works for us both. I know it’s not right but I feel that’s our business.
Welcome to the site. Sounds like a great situation you have there. Life is short. Enjoy while you can