Mistress has just got me a new device . It can be seen on the following link. http://www.extremerestraints.com/chastity-devices_26/steel-chastity-cock-cage_2260.html I have just a few questions to those more experienced. While wearing it at the moment it feels quite heavy and pulling on my balls but how tight should the ring around the balls be? I have to manipulet my balls to get them in but the ring does shut. I am guessing they have to be quite tight to stop you getting out and maybe its just getting used to the pulling feeling? Also I guess the pinching as you get excited and the turning purple as there is no room is the idea? If so then I am in trouble as I get hard very frequently!! Look forward to your replies.