I'm laying here in bed after making love with my wife. For many years of our marriage, 35 years we've been together, whenever I'd get in the mood I'd just take what I needed, cumming and then falling asleep. Now I wait until she tells me or let's me know via body language she wants to cum. To learn the nuances of her body, to sense her urging, to feel her body react with contractions and vibrations pleases me more than my own orgasms. She is my everything and it feels wonderful to know she is content. I'm so glad we have made these changes in our relationship.