Wednesday the 14th will be my 2-year mark without cumming. It's been a very interesting time for both me and my wife. She loves it. But last night she was in a rare mood and said do you want to keep going or stop. It might have been a trick question but I said, let's go another year and discuss again. We both know this is for life so it's all just talk. In another thread, I talked about how she is experimenting with benzocaine and lidocaine as a form of chastity. Last night I was numb as can be and she started playing with it. I could feel nothing but my heart rate went up, and fast breathing. It was the same reaction I get when I can feel it. I wonder could I cum (or edge) without even feeling the pleasure? Dont know.
I don't think you can cum if you truly don't feel anything. Sometimes you'll still have some sensation, which can be enough. I've toyes with these creams. They are very effective. It's important not to put too much on because if you don't feel anything at all, you may not be able to keep an erection.
if its properly numb I doubt it would make you cum from penile stimulation but mentally you might become aroused, the bits that cause a orgasm/ejaculation arn't numbed so you could have a messy accident, remember people here can have a anal orgasm with no penile stimulation. Hey when you first started you used to refer to your wife as GF when did u get married? It must have been during the last 2 years? begs the question what happened on your wedding night lol you obviously didn't get to cum lol
I think you might misunderstand the drugs. It's a numbing cream. It's essentially OTC. I wouldn't really call it "messing with drugs".
Good catch, we are not married but live as husband and wife. And no cumming LOL. She of course made all these decisions.
She is interested enough in the answer that she decided to attempt an edge while I am numb. I will let you know.
I get harder when numb. We don't do this very often but she loves it for chastity without the cage. When we go out to dinner, a party, or with friends, she says.. dunk it! It's a very odd feeling.
Even if your penis is totally numb your wife might cause you to ejaculate after such a long period of denial if she fondled your balls enough or she anally penetrated you in just the right way.