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    Hi everyone, I have just ordered my first chastity device, if I'm going to take this journey, I have to try it out first, to see what I am getting into, right?
     
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    What cage did you go for?

    Good luck but remember if it isn't comfortable or feel too big or tight there are plenty of options available.

    Main stream retailers haven't learned that one size does not fit all.

    Have a good look on eBay, dh gate and Ali express for cheap practice items and if its for you consider a custom cage built to your own measurement's.

    Let us know how you get on.
     
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    Hi Coffee, it was just a cheap one off of Wish tbh. I only wanted to try a cheap one, in case it wasn't for me, though I have a feeling it will be.
     
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    Good luck and I hope it is for you.

    May I suggest some you get some lotion to put around the base during the day to help keep the skin from drying out and set of supportive pants to help with the extra weight.

    There is a period of adjustment and can be a little sore at times but it providing you take good care of yourself down there it will pass before you know it and it is worth persevering with it as the rewards can be huge.
     
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    Thank you, I appreciate the advice.
     
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    I find it breast to try out cheap ones to get a feel for sizing of rings, gaps, cage sizes, etc. Then, when you know exactly as sizes to need, then invest in the more expensive models.
     
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    In my opinion I’d def say to get a custome one if you plan on wearing all the time. When fitted proper you won’t even know it’s on even while working or working out or playing sports
     
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    Thank you for the advice guys, one thing I was wondering, when wearing it 24/7, does it show at all?
     
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    not unless somebody lifts up your skirt :)
     
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    Well there is that lol. I more meant under my normal male clothes, as in work clothes.
     
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    Mine doesn’t show at all
     
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    Mine barely shows even in jeans.
     
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    Mine doesn't really show. There is a slight bulge but unless you knew what to look for and were specifically looking for it you wouldn't notice it. I wear gym shorts and pants while working out at the gym and at my son's house and as for as I know, no one has ever really noticed my cage. I do have to admit though, my cage is on the small side, which helps!:p
     
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    Regarding the suggestion about lotion, baby oil gel works well
    And getting a good fit can take time and some trial and error.
    Good luck and welcone!
     
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    I agree with the advice to try a few different inexpensive cages first to learn about variations in rings and sizes and gaps, etc.

    Mine doesn't show st all, either in business clothes or even in my biking tights.
     
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    Mine doesn't show, even in tight fitting women's jeans. Having some support form good panties is important. (I prefer boyshort style for that reason) I agree with trying cheap cages until you know enough to know you need a better one.
     
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