This is a challenging question to ask, and set meaningful limits. During your first year of experiencing sex with a partner, did you PROVIDE or...
Many years ago when my wife got more into sex with her girlfriend than me, intercourse was cut off completely and oral sex was a special occasion...
I started this as a reply to @Jasmic68 's wonderful Love and Denial thread but decided it was getting too long and didn't want to hijack it, so...