This is a challenging question to ask, and set meaningful limits. During your first year of experiencing sex with a partner, did you PROVIDE or RECEIVE cunnilingus (oral sex) without receiving or providing ANY male genital stimulation, during a single sexual experience? I know women provide fellatio without receiving any sexual stimulation in return, especially in new relationships, but I believe it is, or was, rare for the opposite to occur. I believe it is more fantasy than reality that a woman may request ONLY cunnilingus, when first exploring partnered sex. Many of the men here have a partner who is menopausal, and for reasons related to hormonal changes and general health, can no longer experience penile vaginal intercourse. Meaning, oral only sexual experiences and relationships MAY be more common for them. For men, in our younger years, there may not be an incentive to provide oral stimulation without receiving in return. I'm limited to 10 possible responses. :-(( If you are transgendered, nonbinary, etc, you can respond based on your identification at the time. You can provide details below it you don't want to remain anonymous.
Yes. Also yes. A very rare type of "oral-only" women may theoretically exist, but since PIV is not just biological, but also a social construct, chances of actually encountering one are negligible.
I was trying to provide a single poll that both men and women can answer, perhaps that makes it confusing. I also sought to compare the number who received/provided only cunnilingus versus received/provided only fellatio. Measuring one without the other provides no means of comparison. If you identify as Male choose from the appropriate responses. During first year of sex with a partner: Male Respondent: Yes [Provided only cunnilingus] Male Respondent: No Male Respondent: Received Fellatio Only [Received only fellatio without providing only cunnilingus] If you did or did not do it during the first year, have you done it since? Men: Yes, and I have done it since [Provided only cunnilingus] Men: No, and I have not done it since Men: No, but I have done it since If you identify as Female choose from the appropriate responses. During first year of sex with a partner: Female Respondent: Yes [Received only cunnilingus] Female Respondent: No Female Respondent: Performed Fellatio Only [Performed only fellatio without receiving only cunnilingus] After first year of sex with a partner: Women: No, but have experienced it since [Received only cunnilingus]
Bearing in mind it was 50 years ago nearly......We were straight in to both giving and receiving, but unfortunately in all these years she's never let me cum in her mouth, and nowadays i'm not even allowed PIV all she wants is cunnilingus and analingus
Not sure if any of the poll responses fit my experience. When dating and in the earlier years of our marriage, I did PIV only. My wife was never into giving me oral sex. As we got older and the longer we were married, the more I would give her oral sex. I would get off with PIV sex and would leave her hanging and unsatisfied . Then I would slide down between her legs and finish her off by eating that delicious pussy. I could never get her off with PIV sex, but I could sure eat her to orgasm. I have little interest in PIV sex anymore. I simply love to eat her pussy. There is nothing like burring my face between her legs and feasting on that pussy to bring her to massive orgasm. I recall one session of love making where I had brought her to a massive orgasm orally and the sights and sounds of her orgasm caused me to have an penial orgasm without any stimulation. Now because of our age and each of us with medical issues, even oral on her is not possible any more.
I had a one night stand many years ago before i met my wife with an older woman where i only provided cunnulingus and gave her a lovely orgasm she nearly broke my neck between her thighs when she orgasmed , i then asked if i could enter her but unfortuantly i didnt have any condoms so she said no so i just cuddled her until the morning when i got up and left . I think that has shaped the way i am today with my wife i give her multiple orgasms without expecting anything in return but she does stimulate me without me being allowed to come most of the time .
I dated a woman in college freshman year who wanted to remain a “Virgin” and was also frightened about becoming pregnant. We enjoyed a terrific year of me eating her pussy and her primarily sucking me a bit before I masturbated and came in her mouth. Fantastic memories!
Not first year, but the last few months my Queen is almost only allowing me to give her oral orgasms every day. She’s cut down piv to a few times a month lately, I think she’s really wanting to show me that she’s definitely taking this lifestyle seriously, and she’s in control and loves everything about controlling our sex lives. It’s incredible!
The poll is a little confusing, but I can say for sure that most of what we did sexually in the first year of my relationship with my first GF — eventually my wife— centered around my performing oral sex on her. Things would usually build to that act as the main event, and culminate with her having a climax. She was super responsive pretty much everywhere a tongue could go and mine was ever eager to go everywhere. I often remained clothed or partially so. It was rare for her to directly contact or even see my penis, though I would definitely attribute that more to my own shyness and diffidence about being naked than a lack of curiosity on her part. I was 19 and she was younger so I felt like I was kind of the one controlIing things. I think it was mutually thrilling and satisfying and it just worked for us. I’m sure we went most of that time before we had full-on intercourse.
Have heard that a relationship is more successful when she has the first orgasm... Not sure if it's superstition or proven fact, but it's worth licking into...
My first orgasm ever with another person was a LOT like that. I was 19 and it was really the first someone-getting-butt-naked sexual experience of my life. the someone is my wife today…btw she was the one butt-naked and I was not!!! I’d been eating her pussy for the very first time when she said she wanted to show me her ass and she flipped around onto her knees. it wasn’t very long before I went from showering reverent kisses all over her backside to tongue searching between her cheeks, and I don’t know if she knew something already, but there was no mistaking her intent or her responsiveness to being rimmed. As her climax moved through her, I began humping air and came powerfully in my jeans. It’s still way up there on my list of all time sexual moments
I think I've understood. In the first year of the relationship with my wife did I ever go down on her without getting something in return, eg a BJ or full sex - no. I went down on her plenty, but always got something in return. Did she ever blow me and not get anything in return? Yes. A couple of times but not often. Do I go down on her now and get nothing in return? All the time! I'm on strict orgasm denial!