I find week four is when I start to get some level of acceptance
That's really cool. I hadn't thought about keyholders holding boys who have different needs or are on different parts of the chastity journey
What fantasies have you been thinking of
I honestly find spanking can be quite the relief. My girlfriend has spotted when I have had a bad day at work and a few whacks with the cane will...
I think dreaming of impossible fantasies is a normal part of sexuality, and that doesn't change just because we are folk that indulge in chastity...
This sounds like a very zen approach to chastity
I like having a challenge that seems scary but exciting. That moment of, what if she keeps me for a month, what if she doesn't stop then?
Long term I would one day like to join the 100 days club. I can currently go for a month, and 100 days seems just about as out of reach to me now...
Is that the kind of thing you want to try?
Ok, if you are looking for ways to get a bit of excitement going I suggest silly games or wagers where the bet is for spanks or days in chastity...
I'm curious. What is your target that you are aiming for? Talking weeks or months here? And what inspired you to try this? As for shopping...
Essentially when everyone is an adult then it's more a case of making sure not to scare anyone vanilla or do anything that squicks you. Telling...
Once you have the fit sorted consider how you will build up your time in chastity. ( Not that I think anyone has to go long term if they don't...
Two key points: * Chastity should not hurt and it should not injure. * It is ok to build up to forever in small steps. When starting out with...
It might be worth having a think about what punishment is for. If you are training something, be it teaching a student, training a puppy or...
This is really hard to answer without knowing your dynamic and hard limits. Do you want cheeky fun punishment or harsh and brutal. So apologies...
I think getting too into points for chores makes the whole affair become more bookkeeping than fetish lifestyle. And I am someone who likes his...
That's the point I'm making. Great to sit down with kids and make sure they know all about safe contraception and the nature of consent, but they...
I also don't think there is anything immorally deviant about using chastity while also being responsible for kids. Plenty of our vanilla friends...
I think it's important to keep a veil between our everyday lives and our kink lifestyle. And that means not leaving cages lying about and not...