I'm not locked up but I'm not allowed to orgasm without her permission. Masturbation is ok as long as I don't orgasm. It actually helps her,...
In response to the OP, as others have said, you are not alone in your frustration. I think of it as the submissive curse. We crave to be...
We did not start our FLR until after we were married but I fantasized a lot about what a marriage ceremony would be like if we were in a FLR prior...
We don't have a contract but it is understood that she is in charge and I obey and she has established rules and expectations for me to follow. A...
I don't disagree with you. My question was more about whether the addition of chastity/denial and domination into a marriage, causes the man (the...
I hear you. I am only allowed a few orgasms a year so I am horny all the time and thinking about sexual things 24/7. My arousal gets going very...
Never done it but would love it if it was another female dominate. Don’t think I could handle a man training me.
When my wife took control of my orgasms and began dominating me, my fantasies began to center on her. Prior to that my fantasies were mostly...
Sure but I wouldn’t label that as a FLR. It would just be a marriage where the wife is the dominant partner, I consider FLR a formal...
That's a great start to your FLR. You are right about it evolving. That is how it happened with us. Little-by-little each year new rules,...
Yes. it is wild how orgasm control and FLR can change your life. My every day life is a fantasy come true. Not only am I amazed at all the...
On another thread, someone suggested I share some of the rules in my FLR since I have a mature FLR that has been running smoothly for many years....
My wife and I are private about our FLR in that we do not openly talk about it with friends and family. However, it has become such a natural part...
Tell her you are 100% focused on her today and are there to serve her in any way she desires. If she not one to take advantage of such a request,...
I was married for about 5 years before I revealed my submissive desires to her. Prior to my big reveal our marriage was a very traditional 50/50...
I handle the finances because I am good with finances and she does not have any interest in paying the bills. However she has full oversight over...
Since this is posted in the FLR thread, I am assuming your question refers to getting on board with FLR and not just chastity. My wife controls...
It's not a book, but the Femdom Think Tank website has a lot of great FLR posts that are down-to-earth and very practical advice for women in...
My wife recognizes the drop and leaves me alone for a day or two to recover. I think she actually enjoys this short timeout for herself. I have...
Put gas in her car. My wife loves that she rarely pumps gas.