My wife had her birthday last Tuesday. As special gift i asked her to take over the leadership. She understood my question, and agreed that she was better than me. We spoke also about my Chastity, and how long i will be locked up till release. (Yesterday it was exactly half a year ago that i fitted my first cage). She thinks about it.... so i don't know yet what she will do. This morning i asked: do you have already things what you want?? O Yes!! She said, this morning i made a memo of all the ideas there came in my mind! Of course i'm now very curious how things will go, but my conclusion is that she goes ahead now. (In the beginning she was very hesitant, but that's done now...)
I experienced it as a fine line between offering g this kind of relationship and the temptation of topping from the bottom.
Generous! You can lose that in a reasonable amount of time is you eat less and exercise (at least at first).