It would appear to anyone researching around the FLR/Chastity lifestyle that entering chastity would increase the amount of orgasms your partner receives. A pay-of in the reduction of your own. Does you partner have more frequent orgasms than their pre-chastity days?
I voted more orgasms but I'd caveat that by saying that he's probably masturbating less and using me for pleasure more.
Absolutly, it's awoken a new untapped desire in my wife, she's incredibly horny. I'd say she's had the most orgams ever these past few years, far more than when we weren't involved with chastity. I'd say that since we've started this it has given her a huge boost in confidence, a huge boost to her sex drive, and the longer it's gone on, the more she wants and has. It's amazing, and so is she!
My wife is in charge of this and things pretty much have remained the same, I've often offered to just please her but she's not really into it she said she gets off getting me off
She definitely does now, what’s funny is she locked me up but she masturbates almost daily. Her vibrator gets more use than I do, It’s a funny irony and I love it.
Hard call as we started with chastity and a FLR right from the start. I would say though that she has somewhat more orgasms - certainly not less. Why is that ? Because she got more confident to get herself what she wants when she wants it. It is not necessarily that her sexdrive got much higher, but before beeing in the mood during daytime she would have less likely indulged in it, because she wanted to go shopping a short time later or had to do some work. Nowadays is more inclined to ask me to get down on her or would take care of her problem herself in a short period of time. Writing this I just realized something... Saying this about a man most people here might say that he got himself some really bad masturbation habits...^^
Would say stopped around the same just the dynamics around them have changed as she is in complete control
OMG YES!!! Probably more in the first year of chastity than the previous 20-30 combined. (I'm totally embarrassed after seeing that written out.)
Mrs Edge enjoys them more frequently, and I have noticed a definite improvement in their strength. Or at least she had become much more expressive about them.
She has about the same, but I have always encouraged her to masturbate as she wished. My/our chastity has not affected her orgasms nearly as much as mine.
I guess I am almost an anomaly on this one. My wife has less now. That’s not a problem as much as a reflection of our starting point… We’d have a lot of intercourse and it was always my aim to ensure she enjoyed that as much as possible (obviously!), but the issue was the reasoning behind the sex in the first place. It had become routine, on many occasions (more than I realised) just for my benefit. It was good sex. We enjoyed it… But her orgasms now have become something to savour, at her whim, more enjoyable, more memorable. It has been an improvement for sure. As they still happen 2 to 3 times a week, I really can’t complain!
I think that's really a fantastic number for most women. Yes, there are some who enjoy it with greater frequency. But for most women, once a week is the about average assuming they achieve an orgasm each time they have sex with their mate. So 2-3 times means they are feeling very loved and appreciated! Just my two cents.
On the flip side, as chastity is now our only means of contraception, she now loses one weeks orgasms per month! My heart bleeds for her
So facetious! Your heart bleeds for yourself because you appreciate her orgasms so much more now than ever before! You feel like you're missing out and probably are constantly monitoring for when she's ready to go again.
To explain the irony further of how the tide has turned for my wife and I. As I mentioned she probably has several orgasms over the course of a week now. Before we started chastity it was maybe once a month, very low sex drive at the time. As we started chastity her sex drive was still low and for a time I would be given several more orgasms than she wanted to receive. I started buying her vibrators and personal sex toys and encouraged her to masturbate as I had read a few articles saying it was good for women. She seemed to always have a particular time of day when she gets really horny but of course it’s right in the middle of my work day so we sext a lot In the last few of years she’s really put the toys to use. I think most of the time she’ll play with herself at least a few times a week and then typically she lets me play with her and give her O’s once a week. Lately my releases having been looking like every two weeks. It’s just funny how’s she’s now become the naughty little masturbator
Do you think she does the manly thing of downplaying her masturbation? Like she could actually be at it two or three times a day?
Could be, she used to tell me every time she did it but now she doesn’t. I know where she keeps her favorite toy and it always looks like it’s been moved or shifted lol. Either way I love that she does it, I think it has helped bring out her sexuality.
We're definitely having a lot less sex, but her chance of having an orgasm from sex now has approached 100%. The last time we had sex, she had several orgasms from PIV, which used to almost never happen.
On September 1, 2018 Di and I began our little adventure into chastity, orgasm denial, and FLR. At that time she had me construct a database to track various datapoints. One of those datapoints is her number of orgasms verses my number of orgasms. As of this posting the totals are as follows: Di = 500, Me = 023. So for us this one is no myth...
I voted that she has more but only because she has only orgasmed from oral stimulation from me. Since now I’m locked up 99% of the time when she wants sex, less time is wasted on PIV in regards to her pleasure.
My Wife has slightly more now, but definitely far more from oral than piv now. And she did have an increase in her monthly average at the end of ‘22, November (37) and December (39) were both a jump up from the norm of 29-30. She was feeling very comfortable in her dominance around this time and ever since. A bout with covid and a drop in testosterone had her feeling pretty awful to start this year, so her average dipped a little bit in January and to start February, but once her energy came back and her T level was adjusted, she’s been back to normal and on pace for around 36 or so this month. Pre chastity, she’d have around 30 per month as well. But the attitude was different then, she was okay just letting me have her and maybe not having an orgasm once in a while, but now, she almost demands an orgasm daily. Occasionally two or more daily if we have the house to ourselves. So the power has definitely added to her horniness quite a bit and I totally love it!