Putting together a blog to keep me honest and just to journal my journey, have seen some great blogs which over the course of multiple years really shows an interesting progression/ change and I am hoping this will be the start of something I can look back on with interest, although I am not sure how much privacy I will continue to have, so I am ok with this just being a fun summer 'fling' So for medical reasons my wife is pretty unable to do much sexually for easily half a year, she might of course decide to give me a hand but its not really come up and I have not wanted to ask her. So while I am not engaging her in it and will find it interesting keeping it away from her I have decided to try going into chastity! I have always had an interest in Femdom/ Chastity etc although as the wife is vanilla have never really engaged with any real play. Got a cage and have been wearing it when horny for about a week now so am already on a little over day 7 of chastity. Have come across a great JOI which reasons I would be begging NOT to exit chastity as the feeling of being horny is far better than the feeling of the orgasm. That video has been incredible motivation as it is spot on. So I am now setting myself a rough target of lasting until the end of June but actually just going indefinitely. In order to aid with that, when I am not in the belt I am not letting myself touch myself. I am enjoying the pain anfd hornyness and am hoping it will be indefinite.
Roughly day 9 of Chastity. So a quick update (not planning to update daily but more when things of note happen), ended up watching a fair bit of porn while locked up last night and dreamed I was about to orgasm. Woke up before doing so which I think interrupted a wet dream (I haven't had one of those in 8 years!) Was totally throbbing but nothing came out. Am really enjoying the slight blue balls I have been building up every so often and am shocked by how the feeling sorts itself out overnight. A bit worried about this weekend as have social plans and am hoping I don't get an erection during an awkward moment, never kept myself denied and been out in public before so this is interesting/ worrying but I am hoping it will be in the back of my mind while im busy focusing on just meeting people.
Roughly day 12 of Chastity. Not a huge update, but it feels good to have kept going. Wednesday was extremely hard and it took a lot of willpower to abstain. 'fortunately' Thursday and Friday have been so busy that I haven't really been able to worry about being horny. So that's a good thing, certainly on track to make it to the end of the week and as I am treating each Sunday as a milestone getting there will be great. The goal is to make it through the whole month and hopefully the mini milestones make getting there easier!
Great observations. A few favorite lines that I can relate to: Couldn't agree more. Perpetual arousal feels amazing. I like it when they get so engorged that even the base ring is difficult to remove! Continually amazed at how they shrink back down again when there's no teasing. Often find myself discouraged, thinking it's only been X number of days... Then I get busy, lose track of time, and am surprised how much time has gone by.
First of all thank you for your thoughts @stallionBoi, seeing that people are reading this is really helping with motivation! Roughly day 15 of Chastity. So a bit of a unfortunate update, On Saturday I decided to watch some porn and pretty much the first clip was just a pretty womans face talking about denial. All I did was touch the top of my cage and despite thinking I was doing fairly well. That is all it took to release. I must have been a lot more desperate than I thought. Fortunately it was a pretty unfulfilling release, totally ruined, but a release all the same. It felt like a lot of pressure had been relieved from my testicles and that alone was relief although I suspect feeling a release has made this challenge 10x worse as I now am extremely horny again and want the real thing. Despite being slightly dejected about it, I am continuing on, I have no touched myself or had a proper orgasm in 15 days and that is an achievement making it to the end of the month would be huge even with mistakes on the way. So extremely horny, extremally frustrated but persevering as after all, this feeling beats the one orgasm. Sunday was interesting, was out with friends on a summers day where people were not wearing much at all, interestingly I put aside the 'hornyness' and was just social. Its amazing how much of this is down to frame of mind and I was relieved that 15 days of not touching myself didnt cause any embarrassing erections or anything.
Roughly day 16 of Chastity. I have been thinking about how to continue this beyond the month. (I do not think I could go indefinitely with no goal.) and came across a great JOI today which says to use random.org calender generator to pick 5 days I get to cum. So these are my dates for next month: 2023-07-05 2023-07-11 2023-07-13 2023-07-17 2023-07-26 I am going to let myself cum on the first of the month too, 6 orgasms in a month is not much at all but feels crazy generous considering how this month has been! Not sure if I will give myself full orgasms or figure out a way for me to start on ruined orgasms with the ability to earn full ones. Seems like it could be fun to figure out either way.
Roughly day 19 of Chastity. A good/ bad update for me, and likely the last for at least a few months. The last week chastity wise went pretty well, I decided to focus more on mental chastity than physical chastity as I was wary the cage was causing problems, which meant that I was watching porn less anyway (was determine not to touch myself this month) and so things plateau'd into a manageable state. In that time some changes happened with my Wife medically and thankfully she is through to the other side of it well enough that it is likely we will be able to be more intimate. Its hard to know if that will continue, the nature of the beast is that it may not so I may be back to give this a go at some point in the future. Until then though I am going to switch focus 100% onto my partner and go cold turkey on porn. Thank you all for the encouragement. I will likely make it another few days just out of being busy so being able to say I lasted 20 days is a huge achievement. Good luck and enjoy your own journeys and I guess until I am next with you ciao!