Wife or girlfriend became so good at Male Chastity? When my Wife and I first met, we had all types of sex. Oral, PIV, anal, we tried almost everything. MC was never mentioned, because neither of us knew anything about it. My Wife had tied me up a few times, but not many times. I always enjoyed it, but she wasn't really into it. Five years ago, I mentioned MC to her, she thought it would be fun and had me order my first cage. When it arrived, she couldn't get it on me fast enough. We started slow, some teasing, only wearing it during the day, a few orgasms a week... Now five years later, my last orgasm was over 14 months ago, I wear a cage 99% of the time and she is in full control of our sex life. When we began, she didn't like to use the riding crop on me. A few soft hits, but nothing too hard. That has sure changed. I now start off almost every morning with 15-20 good whacks on my ass. She didn't like tying me up. Now she will tie me up and even enjoys tying my cock and balls. I just wonder what "clicked" for her to enjoy our new lifestyle. I have asked her and she says she enjoys having control over me. She enjoys how much attention she gets from me. This started as my kink, but has turned out to be more about her. I'm fully into her new lifestyle. In fact, I wouldn't have it any other way...
Enjoy it! It is what you wanted and you are lucky. My Wife had always been a reluctant Domme. It went against Her conservative upbringing. It would occasionally come out over the years but now in our 50s She really enjoys sex more overall and started being more frequently dominant a few years ago. We have played with MC for an about a year but now we are really making it a permanent part of our lives. I noticed that MC was the key to making Her embrace her dominance. She told me MC gives her control of me even when She isn’t with me and She loves that. It builds her dominant desires for when we are together. I love being dominated by Her and wearing the cage which makes Her want to dominate me even more.
I guess it all comes with trust. When you can relax into a relationship and know you can trust the person, you can let down your defences and indulge your fantasies.