My wife and I have been experimenting with a wife led marriage while we are renting a condo down south to escape the snowy winter. One of our concerns until last night was whether she would be able to administer the type of spanking that would make a grown man commit to avoiding a repeat offense. That concern was conclusively put to rest yesterday. I've noticed that she seems particularly sexy to me today. I can't quite put my finger on what exactly is different. She seems to have a more confident attitude which I find sexy. I wonder how much of it is an actual change in her and how much of it is "in the eye of the beholder". In college, we used to joke about "beer goggles" that made women look more attractive after we had consumed alcohol. Have others noticed a "tear goggles" phenomenon that a woman looks more attractive after she has induced a tearful episode across her lap?
Yeah, no kidding! But in general, when your wife hooks you good, all the other things you used to chase just kind of go away. Weird. Good weird.
I definitely think so. My Mistress (and partner) absolutely loves spanking - properly disciplining me. (I was working on my bike the other day and noticed a blood spot on the wall - it was from my spanking!) Considering she had no idea what BDSM was 18 months ago, she has proven to have an uncanny ability to thrash me to within a single stroke of me uttering my safe word, repeatedly. I don't know how she does it! When I know she plans to punish me, I become genuinely frightened as I know the pain I am in for and that I am pretty much helpless for, but equally I see how much it turns her on and that turns me on immensely! And of course the endorphin rush afterwards is immense; I am also amazed when I look at my arse an hour later to see how little damage is done! Mistress is always in a good mood afterwards and always has a huge orgasm.
Ok, I read this post the other day and have been thinking about it. Today when I read it, I got an inspiration. Tears, beer, a good woman. Not sure how many of you know the Country song "There's a Tear in my Beer!" originally written and recorded by the great Hank Williams and then later recorded by his son, Hank Williams, Jr. , as shown in this video of the two of them. Well, I play in a band that has performed that song MANY times over the years, but when I read this thread, I was thinking...."Hey, I think I can come up with some new lyrics to that classic song." Unfortunately, I probably wont' have time to record it in the foreseeable future, but if I do, maybe I'll post it in my profile. (OK...the hardest part about recording it will be to get the house to myself so the kids won't HEAR it! LOL) I might tweak things a bit, but here's what I came up with so far: Code: There’s a Tear in my Beer (Fem Domme Lyrics as sung by subbie.) (Original by Hank Williams) Vs. 1 There’s a tear in my beer, ‘cause you spanked me so hard, Dear, You are always on my mind. Into these last few beers, I have shed a million tears, You are always on my mind. I’m gonna keep drinkin’, until my backside’s fine, And, then maybe, these tears will leave my eyes. There’s a tear in my beer, ‘cause you spanked me so hard, Dear, You are always on my mind. Vs. 2 Last night I walked the floor, and the night before, ‘cause you whipped me so hard, Dear. My butt is black and blue, I’m so happy I’ve found you, ‘cause you whip me so hard, Dear. I’m gonna keep walkin’, because my butt’s so red, I prob’ly won’t sit again until I’m good and dead! There’s a tear in my beer, ‘cause you spanked me so hard, Dear, You are always on my mind. Vs. 3 Lord, I’ve tried and I tried, but my tears I cannot hide, ‘cause you spank so hard, My Dear. Each and every time, you spank me ‘til I whine, ‘cause you spank so hard, My Dear. Please keep spanking, ‘til you can’t spank no more, Yes, My Dear, that’s a puddle on the floor! There’s a tear in my beer, ‘cause you spanked me so hard, Dear, You are always on my mind. YEE HAW!!!! ~subrick