What would be in a Chaste Manifesto?

Every outline of a tome starts somewhere. You're off to a good start.

 

Giles,

I think your list is NEITHER vague nor incomplete.

Therefore, we might think of it more as a constitution than a manifesto.

While your list is, strictly speaking, a manifesto, it doesn’t read like one. (E.g., the Communist Manifesto).

I tried to add, but saw nothing left uncovered in the four points. And four points will lend itself to a catchy graphic.

Simple is good.

Laz

 

I would point out that chastity in relationships can be far different depending on who the chaste and KH are .....obviously

but what I would actually emphasize from your list is that "my chastity is my problem" ....i would probably phrase that as 'my restlessness or my ache and want while in chastity is my problem, not that of my partner'

After all, most folks around here (and elsewhere I assume) are the ones who brought this upon themselves because they either craved the kink, wanted to increase the intimacy between themselves and their partner/wife/kh or thought it would help other aspects like porn addiction or unfaithfulness to a degree.

I think it's a good start to a list, but the way it's said, it almost sounds like "ugh, yes, let me recite the tenants of my chastity for the 900th time" rather than an optimistic take on a completely different approach to your relationship and how you relate to intimacy with your KH.

 

I tried to come up with something for us but everytime I spent more than a few minutes on it I always found it boiled down from a lot of "me" things to this one simple bullet point.

• I accept that what she wants, she gets.

 

In my case “my problem” simply means I tend to the mechanics of things. I wash, shave, etc. it’s my job to deal with fitment and hygienic issues.

 

And you can introduce/propose new ideas. e.g. She didn't know she liked you locked up until you introduced it.

 

This is pretty close to perfect.

 

1. She makes the rules.
2. See rule 1.
3. The locked person may not speak of chastity, devices, keys, locking/unlocking, sexual desire, or punishment unless asked directly, or a valid medical/hygiene concern arises.
4. For a comprehensive definition of "valid," refer to rule 1.

 

I believe everyone is different and it all depends on your key holder whatever they want is how it is

 

I think dependent on the amount of input you choose or your Lady chooses to let you have your agreement is something exclusively yours and should be developed over time between yourselves

Some arrangements are partnerships where he is slightly submissive and ranging to those relationships where he signs over everything of his, never leaves the home and does absolutely everything for her.

Any arrangement has in my view if its to endure to be both realistic and jointly agreed with regular reviews where both have equal say

 

Hopefully an interesting read:

https://gynarchyworld.wordpress.com/2018/02/28/the-gynarchist-manifesto/

 

Yes, I see.
The gynarchyworld article(?) is basically a reworking of Marx's Communist Manifesto, a groundwork for a gynarchy revolution. It's more a piece of entertainment, really, rather than a real-life guide to living in permanent chastity.

 

Do you mean that it can be useful to create fictional literary worlds or real-life worlds, which accept our chastity lifestyles? I should think that both are related: cultures are built upon narratives, after all.

 

Chastity is already a part of the BDSM subculture, but perhaps like me you consider chastity to be just a part of daily life? Something less kinky and more ordinary? I mean, when it's permanent, chastity kind of becomes just another item of clothing, and as such it is not necessarily kinky anymore.
It seems to me that so much of chastity related fiction is written by men, but as for creating new real-world subcultures, shouldn't that be left to our key-holders?