Yesterday my wife surprised me with a BJ to edge. This was a big deal as we(she) decided she was done with the degrading act. I was in heaven and then hell.
I'm happy for you. Although, I don't agree that it is a degrading act. I think of it as a GIFT. My wife knows I crave it and she loves me enough to give me that pleasure occasionally. Now of course it can be degrading under other circumstances. But between a married couple it shouldn't be.
Agree it’s a gift. I’m to the point now where I’ve been denied a hood bit and all the feelings anywhere inside her feel so amazing and intense that you don’t want to cum because you just want that blissful high to keep going. Total rush and I’m in heaven when she takes the cage off and allows any of it.
My wife also considers it degrading to women and stopped doing it, but like yours, she surprises me with it as a gift around once a year. Most oral now is me on her.
I love oral sex and my Wife (KH) knows it. When we first started dating, she would give me blow jobs all the time. Up until five years ago, when we started our Male Chastity life style, she would suck and swallow all the time. Now the only time I get any oral is for teasing, which only happens a few times a month.(If that) She now can bring me right to the edge and leave me throbbing with no orgasm. I once loved getting a blow job, but it's different now, I still enjoy it, but my Wife won't allow me to cum which is very frustrating...
Always nice. You say though, "BJ to edge". Curious about that because I assume you were almost there, but she stopped. How did she know to stop? Did you tell her? Could she figure it out on her own? Or it just so happened to stop before you came?
Yes, it was an edge, she made me almost cum. She can tell but I always tell her. I am not allowed to cum ever.
Thanks for this post. I hope to be like this. And if it's ok with you I will remember this one to tell my wife. I assume "hood" was "good", but an interesting BDSM Freudian slip maybe.
My wife prefers oral to penetration, but is excellent at both. There is nothing that excites me more when she brings me to the edge and knows exactly when to back off. She will do this several times before she takes it to completion and proudly shows me the end product in her mouth before she swallows and then kisses me. Then there is the surprise snowball when she does not swallow, what a shock. However, I have to wait a minimum of 20 more nights before I can even experience this, that is i she unlocks me.