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    My wife has a grown daughter of 27. She visits frequently and seems to have noticed her mom giving me orders. The other night we were watching TV and she looked over at me and said "Make me another drink". She was not snotty or mean, just direct. Of course, I did it.

    I am just wondering if anyone else has seen that kind of behavior?
     
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    This gave me a nice grin.

    Our kids must sense something is up, since I've transitioned from being the self-centered king of the castle, to being a respectful servant of my wife, and in only a few years. But they've never asked.

    At any rate, at least they see their parents happy together, and see their dad consistently treating their mom with great respect. I'm cool with that.
     
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    Yes my wife wanted to be addressed as either Mistress or Miss the moment she locked me up 2.5 years ago . Not sure what my young adult kids think .They know something is up .
     
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    My Goddess told her daughter that I now do everything for her because I love her and am paying her back for looking after me whilst I was the main bread winner. Her adult daughter thinks it’s wonderful and has no clue of the reality!
    I retired 4 years ago and now do everything at home. (And I mean everything).
    Life is perfect for us. Me craving Goddess all the time and my lovely wife having all the orgasms.
    Happy days…….
     
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    I feel a bit uncomfortable about this. I view chastity and FLR as a sexual kink and, as such is very OK between consenting adults (yes, I know how old your step-daughter is), but if your partner's children are going to become involved, then it crosses a line.

    I would have made it very clear to the daughter that, although you are happy to serve you partner, this does not extend to her and she can get her own drink.
     
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    Key word: "consenting".

    I've alwayshad similar feelings about things like certain activities in a hotel room (eg spanking). The maid or the folks in the next room didn't consent to be audio voyeurs.
     
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    I would have asked her if her legs where broken and told her to get the F'n drink herself.
     
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    I'd be quite happy to make her another drink, but that's just me.
     
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    I can see why this would make some people uncomfortable, and it seems like it’s wrong. Its the other way for my Madam and her mother are best friends, and she knows about our lifestyle it makes me slightly uncomfortable.
     
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    I have pretty much always submitted to women. I would serve my adult daughter, son's girlfriend, their female friends, etc. Why not? It makes me happy to serve. Any females that come into our home are served by me happily.
     
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    @stevie stevens Fair point. I fall on the side of being uncomfortable with OP situation, but your post is a reminder that there is rarely one correct answer for everyone.
     
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    Same here. I'm very female submissive!
     
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    If you’re into the whole female supremacy thing then fine, but it’s not everyone’s cup of tea.
     
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    My submission is to my Wife. If she tells me to submit to another, I do. Until then, they are just any other person. So my reaction to that situation is nuanced; if I had been instructed to respect her as a dominant female, I would have been fine with it. But more likely she would have gotten a strong reaction from my Wife saying that she can get her own damn drink and show her husband some respect.
     
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    Kindness never goes out of style
     
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    I find that many women who are aware of their powers can easily sense when a male is submissive. Not all women, but an increasing number! Mistress has told me that as a submissive, regarding women other than your Mistress, "If you submit to one, you must submit to all". So, that is what I live by and am quite happy to please. I feel rewarded by how well I am treated by all those whom I serve. Life is good!
     
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    Depends on the definition of "serve". Any man can be a gentleman, including serving food or drinks, etc.

    However, teaching a young lady that it's OK to disrespect a man and boss him about is likely to negatively affect her future relationships, if she doesn't know or understand the dynamics involved. You wouldn't (I hope) teach a boy to treat a girl that way. Informed consent is a 2-way street for all involved.
     
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    I find it awkward being submissive around others to my wife. Not because I’m embarrassed to do so, but because of my sexual desire while doing such things.

    Things that are not inherently sexual in nature, like a foot rub for example, get me going and in a heightened state. Having someone walk in while doing so, although not appearing sexual, is embarrassing because of how I am feeling. I suppose it’s the baggage I’m carrying and not what they see. Nevertheless, it feels like I got caught touching myself instead of casually touching her feet.

    She has no hang ups about it and openly asks for foot rubs no matter who’s in the room. Me I get a bit embarrassed and sheepish about it, because to me I get excited serving her.
     
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    i rather i was all alone with Mistress as well when i do that.
     
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    I absolutely agree with this, however, even if my dominant partner ordered me to serve and obey her daughter, I would still be uncomfortable doing that and it would still feel wrong to me, for the same reasons @Nicoftime mentions above.
     
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    I am my cuckoldresses cuck husband if our daughter started ordering me around she would get her drink by wearing it.
     
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    For me, there is a certain sexual tension and emotional connection to serving. I would be extremely uncomfortable to establish those feelings with another woman, be it friend or family. Just not the right direction.
     
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    Maybe more appropriate if it was your wife's sister hehe. I would not be comfortable taking orders from a daughter in law
     
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    I don't know about taking orders, but I definitely show more respect now to women in general. Actual respect, not just going through the motions. Like, actually listening when spoken to. And actually being helpful when needed. Things that you'd think would be normal, but which I somehow avoided for most of my life.

    I focus pretty hard now on being respectful to and helpful for my wife, and I think this just flows from that place.
     
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    Oh!
    Maybe I´ll make one those captions pictures with the two of them!
    Danger!
     
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