Comments on Profile Post by Just a guy

I know I'm not telling you something you don't already know, but her pleasure should always come first. It almost sounds like you are bottoming from the top. Would you say that is accurate? Then you are having trouble truly letting her have full and absolute control?
Just a thought that comes to mind.......

I want her to have full control. First I want to please her or even get her close before I insert. But that is her choice not mine. Second she starts off by stroking me. With being caged now I can’t go past 2 mins trying everything I can to last longer. But she says rubbing me gets her going. Both are still a little new to it she just doesn’t want to hurt me she says.

I keep tell her I’m ok with it. But at the same time. We would go 3-6 months before sex. Now it’s once a week we play around. So even tho it’s a good thing for me now. Im trying to hold everything back and say hold it. You get to cum first and if you allow me out then that’s ok. But you first. Then hopefully after she cums she will change mind and say you now what just it on.

AHH!! O.K. I see what you are saying. Sorry about he confusion. Communication is key. Just keep reassuring her and tell her or keep telling her your desires. Express to her that you get so much pleasure by giving her pleasure without her having to reciprocate. Or reciprocate but only after she has had her fill of you pleasuring her first. (If she so desires) Otherwise she gets hers and you get denied.

Was even thinking about getting Viagra so even if I do cum quick I can still please her.

I don't know if that would necessarily work. It doesn't for me anyway. I've tried it (masturbating) I have always been able to last more than long enough for the woman I was with to be satisfied. Especially with lots of foreplay and oral beforehand. I've tried Viagra and Cialis for mastubation to do what you are talking about, but it didn't work. Maybe if I was with a woman who wanted me as bad as wanted her.

I have heard some people say it works and can cum and still stay hard. But others that say didn’t work for them. Wish I new someone that takes it to just get one and try. That would work better this way I would now.