Comments on Profile Post by Nicoftime

It seems like a natural progression of Chastity.

Wow nico, I have to admit I’m kind of surprised. I remember you posting and offering her the option, didn’t seem to long ago. For whatever reason I didn’t think you guys would go there. Not that I find anything wrong with that ;)

@Mash2214 it kind of makes me wonder... at one point in my life up until about 2 years ago it wouldve been a def no. But in the last couple of years I’m much more open to it myself. Crazy how my whole mentality changed in just a couple of years.

It was a hard limit for both of us, then it was an option, and now seems like an inevitability

Nico, I find you to be one of the more level headed and honest people here. Please keep us posted as to your thoughts and feeling on this.

Thanks and will do, I am thinking when it does happen it will be thoroughly planned and thought through

Wow Nic! Like others, I'm surprised, and pleased for you that your relationship is progressing in such an interesting and special direction. Not that I think everyone *should* go this way, but you two are so in love that if this is appealing to you both, it is likely to be very very very special and will probably deepen your trust and love. Not to mention tease the heck out of you!

For us years ago it was a definite No. than maybe. Now she’s active with someone else. Natural progression

I hope it is not a natural progression for us, but I think @nicotime has accepted the possibility since the beginning.

Since everyone's path is unique, I don't think it is a natural progression for everyone @Rectrix . There are dynamics between two that eventually choose a direction, whatever that may be. I'll just say you enter the melting pot of conflicting emotions when someone is added. Fantasy and real life are extremely different. It just may be the start of a new chapter for you. I wish you all the best.

Wow! I hadn't caught up with my reading on CM in some weeks. This is an interesting development! Good luck, Nic - I hope that it works out well for the both of you!