My Nervous KH

yes of course but knowing its 100% secure adds to the powerloss though its not about me i know just speaking my mind here

 

I also keep a key in my wallet in a similar manner. Mostly for the random drug screens we have at work now and again. I feel the lock is more of a symbol as most if not all are easily defeated. And the 6000 types you can pull out the top, do what you do and put it pack in.

 

well MsGabriellia , the lock indeed can be defeated use a heavy duty comb padlock but you could if you wnated to snap the plastic locking pin..( though ive seen ppl replace it with a metal one) but i got the CB6K s version with the anti pull-out device called ksd or something... wich is just a piece of plastic in the device itself wich pushes the dick down pretty hard... in soft mode its ok in hard mode...well i dont even get that far because that ksd device pinches in ym dick wich hurts and quickly lets the hardon go away and i surely cant pull out ( having the small version helps too i think bought it for that reason alone to fill it up completely makes more of a snug package wich i like) my fetlife has a pic of the CB6Ks and the little red thing in the pic is that ksd device

 

I don't get it. This spare key emergency thing defeats the whole purpose. My KH was nervous too. But there was never and is no spare. Well at least I have no idea where it is or if there is one. My advice is go all the way. Don't worry. Have fun. If someone discovers or whatever oh well. We have been at this a long time and no issues yet.

 

I was in the same boat as you for about the first three months where I had an emergency key at her insistence and I had no intention of trying to escape or unlock myself so it wasn't an issue, really me having a key.

but now I don't and YES you will feel it is a lot more exciting and different and even a bit more claustraphobic once you have no key at all.

You are doing the right thing letting her decide when. It will happen once she realizes how you've gone about your life without ever having to use the key.

deena

 

Key is in a combo lock box at end of bed ,i could use a tool and pry / cut it open if i had to

 

For my wife, over the years we have talked about this same situation. Now, we haven't had the ability to get to the point where I am in so long that I might need a emergency key, till now.. I have looked at Keysure key safes that are one time use (break in emergency) boxes. This is what we plan to use, just a idea.

http://www.keysure.net/

 

Maybe she should keep a pair of clean underwear in there, too, in case you get in a car crash.

You know, who cares what people think? Fuck the Puritans. We are kinky. I wish the world would get over it sometimes.

 

haha, good point. My wife has made it a point to bring into conversation on several occasions that 'she wears the pants' (yes, quoted) with close friends. But I don't think there will ever be a time where either of us will come out and tell everyone 'hey, he's got a lock on his cock right now'. If a stranger at some point somehow found out, sure it would be embarassing, but that wouldn't bother me nearly as much as everyone I know knowing...

 

That's not really a valid comparison. Again, I'll compare it to a body piercing which is somehow an acceptable kink whereas chastity is not a socially acceptable one (right now).

If I had a nipple piercing, I wouldn't walk around with my tits hanging out of my shirt to flaunt it in front of everyone, nor would I wear a t-shirt saying "My nipples are pierced". On the other hand, if I go to see a physician who needs to look at my chest, how is it any of his or her business whether I have a piercing or not? How is the act of going to see a physician for an issue considered flaunting your lifestyle choices?

But pretty much everyone would say one was no big deal (the piercing) and the other was somehow "forcing your lifestyle" on someone else.

I just don't believe in the double standards and the hypocrisy of adjusting my lifestyle to the current cultural norm, not because I want to say "Fuck anyone" (since I can't anyway! LOL)

deena

 

melcooley, a sensible and well written comment. Live your life the way you wish.

 

MelCooley, well said. No one should be able to judge how you choose to live your life. I don't really think that getting caught by emergency workers should be a concern though. We have two family friends, one is a ER nurse and the other a cop. Wearing a chastity device is the least weird thing they have would get exposed to. In any case they are there to do a job, in the heat of an emergency I don't think someone wearing a chastity device or dressed in woman's clothing would register all that highly.

 

I should be more clear since I think I did misinterpret that last post I responded to. I do NOT believe in generally making my chastity lifestyle public knowledge any more than I would any other information about my private sex life with someone else.

I was speaking more about private situations where I expect some sort of client/patient privacy privilege. In those cases, like doctors, lawyers, Emts, therapists, I wouldn't feel like I was forcing my lifestyle choices on them if some matter came up where my chastity device became a matter of knowledge. That's more what I meant.

normally, Mistress nor I would be discussing it with people any more than our favorite sex poditions.

deena

 

I often wonder how many women living a vanilla life would consider putting their partners in chastity once they heard about some of the benefits of the chastity lifestyle.

 

Most of my girlfriends are pretty vanilla. They know about my husband and treat him appropriately. But few have expressed a desire to do the same with their husbands and boyfriends.