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    #1 Butterfly83, Apr 20, 2024
    Hi all! I'm new to the flr scene and I'm looking for ideas and advice on being a gentle Dom to my hubby sub. Not looking to add a 3rd person completely monogamous. Any advice would be helpful thanks in advance!
     
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    #2 The Queens consort, Apr 20, 2024
    Be firm but gentle, until you need to be tough.
     
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    #3 LesterBallard, Apr 20, 2024
    Hello and welcome. I won't presume to offer advice on being a domme but welcome and good luck
     
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    #4 Mr_anonymous, Apr 20, 2024
    Being I'm on caged side of things can't speak on the female side of things. That said we practice what I'd call a 50/50 gentle flr with a good mix of kink and bdsm. What works for us is I do housework, take care of animals, rub feet etc. Just basically try to anticipate her needs to make her life easier. You don't have to be sadist to enjoy a flr. Good luck.
     
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    #5 MissyB, Apr 21, 2024
    Welcome. I hope you enjoy our community.
     
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    #6 SlaveBoy73, Apr 21, 2024
    I highly recommend LongTallSally’s blog
     
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    #7 madams-sissysub, Apr 23, 2024
    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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