Yes, I know. The age old question. My wife is vanilla but does seem open to new things. She has asked to be spanked and loves to sit on my face. She has a definite dominance to her sometimes but it is tempered by some self-consciousness. She is a great communicator and listener. Knowing this, I hope to get her onboard with chastity and an FLR. How have others had their desire to be in chastity met when discussing with their spouse ?
Honest and open conversations. Having some kind of organized way of going about the conversation after reading some blogs and articles on this very topic. Eventually shared some articles from female perspective that might of helped a bit. in time it just got easier and we got to where we are now lol
Hi pepita, welcome. I’ve got some posts in the chastity and orgasm denial thread on what’s happened since I told my wife a week ago. The key lessons and advice from people on this site that worked for me includeded: - starting the conversation and having open communication is the start - give her time to think about it herself, this is a fantasy you’ve probably had for ages to understand and get your head around, she’s hearing it for the first time - don’t talk about it all the time despite it being the only thing you’ll be thinking of 24/7 - show don’t tell some of the benefits, do more chores, be more loving, but do it with no expectations