My caged life.

I just thought I would make a blog instead of trying to put everything in a post. With limited space. A little back store first.
I talked to wife one day about 8 years ago. To get each other a toy you know I get one for her and she gets one for me. The toy she got me was a spinner that spins around my cock. But she said she was going to get me a chastity cage but wasn’t sure if I would wear. The more I looked into them the more excited I got. So I ordered one. My first one was rubber and I broke with morning woods. So I tried a plastic and I split it in two. To wear I had to break it offf. Cause it was pinching bad. Finally I got a metal but it caused sore spots. Finally I found one that was comfortable.
But life happened and was out for a long time. Fast forward to today. I just started wearing cause I was horny like every day and jerking off all the time. Took months and got myself use to again. Now I’m at point wear she holds the key and lets me out once a week to shave and clean.
She says she has ideas to try but won’t tell me. I like that cause gets my mind going. She has just been stroking me to cum but problem is I go to quick. Like a min or less. I started using numbing spray from ky. Works great for me. To wear I can last for a hr or so. Evan got a cock sleave. Even tho she says it’s ok. I always hate cumming before she does and leave her finishing her self.
But know with chastity on I want to use numbing spray and let her enjoy herself and have her put me back in cage till next time. Or could say let me hang out to dry. lol.
three weeks ago I told her that before I gave her the key I tried a few things. One is the cock sleave will fit over the chastity cage that way she don’t even have to let me out and I can still please her that way. Another was that with the help of a rubber pussy I can make myself cum in chastity. So three weeks age she wanted to see that. So I started and she was rubbing her self. She was able to cum before I did. Now to today. I was told that I will be using numbing spray this weekend but not sure if she will let me cum or if she’s going to cum then say ok stop and put cage back on. Have to say part of me wishes she would stop me and lock me back up. Right now three weeks is my longest between orgasam. Plus she loves me wearing thongs that I am only allowed those to bed. I have to say I like them as well.
I will try to post when I can feel free to comment or even message. I love this site it helps me out a lot. And thank you for reading.

 

Looking for a new padlock. The one I’m using now is like an old heart shaped lock. She likes it. But the problem is that it only works for so long then won’t stay locked. It will just come unlocked with out key. Was trying to find one that is finger print lock. But didn’t see one that small. So was asking for help if anyone that might now a good place or a good lock. The ones that came with my cage to me to sharp and scratch’s me. Thanks for the help.

 

Well Sofar for today. Was let out to shave and clean up. Witch was good cause was getting itchy from hair growing back. Just hope she don’t do that again. To me feels better smooth. My opinion, plus I know when or if she wants to play with it she wants me smooth. Had to put back on and like normal she locks the lock on me. But I like her doing that as well. So this will be three weeks with out cumming. Not sure if I will tonight or not. She hasn’t said. But that is her choice. I’m happy. And thank you for reading.

 

I’m heading into week 4. With nothing. I’m a little excited about it but at same time upset. Way she talked thought for sure last night would have been a release. But that’s four weeks with no touching or tease just nice panties. (Men panties). I know I shouldn’t care about teasing me. It should be all about her. But to me it gets hard to deal with in the beginning. I’m sure after time will be a little easier. I hope. That’s it for today. Thank you alll.

 

Well feeling a lot better today. Haven’t brought anything up to her. Just hope she don’t forget about me being locked up.

 

Well the way this week is going. I’m pretty sure I will be going into week five with no pleasure and not being able to please her as well and none of it is my fault. Just wish there was a way to make her happy. I have tried my best. Sorry for the rant.

 

Mistress said last night if I was good. She will maybe let me out. I hoping that she has me use numbing spray. (My brand). Please her and lock me back up. Have to keep you undated in what she does.

 

Last night she let me take cage off and stroke myself. I was doing good till she started stroking me and she went really fast and I couldn’t help myself. I cummed really fast again. She does like the idea that I can cum while still locked up. I don’t do it unless she has me do it.

 

Well it’s been two weeks and she’s letting me out to clean and shave. To keep myself nice and smooth for her. Just the way she likes it. Not sure if she’s letting me play with myself tonight or if she’s going to play with me tonight. I probably don’t deserve to be touched.

 

I really need to get control over being so horny. I’m just so horny and can’t wait each time for her to let me out to cum. Maybe it’s just from all the thinking I do of new things to try. But going on another week. She don’t touch or do anything till weekends. Just so many things I would like to try. Such as her pulling out a toy to please herself and not let me out. Have her edge me over and over then put me away. Just flat out tease. Maybe some day.

 

So horny today I can’t take it. All I can think about is milking myself. But don’t want mistress upset with me.

 

She has planned on letting me out over weekend but we had to get up really early. Cause got a phone call. She was going to let me out and role over to go to sleep. I think I did a good thing and told her I would wait till next weekend. Plus suggested that use numbing spray and please her then put me away. Or she please her self. Hope she tries one of them.

 

Since things didn’t go as planned last weekend. I said I would wait till next weekend. Sofar not looking good for this weekend I have to work. She has somewhere to be also. But I suggest to give her a back massage. I didn’t even ask about being let out. Hope I’m getting better at this. I’m not going to bring it up eather. If I’m right going on week 3 with out being given a release. Just let out to clean and shave. Even if she says about it. I am going to try and bring up using numbing spray and please her and go back in. But leaving up to her. Wish me luck.

 

I wasn’t really trying to say that I needed please. I want to do what I can to please her. I keep trying to say things that we can try. So she gets pleaser and I don’t. But she always says she feels bad. I keep saying it’s ok. I want to please you and make you happy. Plus both pretty new at all this. Just enjoying the ride to wear ever it takes us.

 

Think I did pretty good this weekend. She said she would let me out this weekend and use me. I wasn’t let out at all. I gave her a nice long back massage. I never asked about being let out. When I was done she rolled over and went to sleep. I didn’t complain or say a word about being let out. I feel I’m getting better at this. Still a long way to go but baby steps. On to week number 5 I think.

 

About finishing up week 5. Not looking to good this week again. Have to see how this plays out. If she allows me a release or not.

 

Well last night she rubbed me till I cummed. But also rub me raw. So out of cage for a day or two. Till it heals.

 

Have to figure something out. Every so often I slip a nut. If I got to smaller ring pinches a lot. The good part is I now wear key is when I’m home. So can easily put back. But when it happens if I’m at work all I can say is ouch does that hurt getting back in. Not sure if I should go to smaller cage or smaller ring. Any advice?

 

Hear is the cage that I’m using. Thanks in advance for any advice.