Hi, i jus wonder. What is biggest difference between being locked at young age and older age? Im 18, but most people online are much older so i was thinking what should be diffrent for me when im younger. Im having troubles with long term locking bcs. I Always get too horny so i unlock myself or get off cage somehow. So i wonder if i would receive some other feelings or I'll get to diffrent situations than older guys. Also if you have any advice how to keep myself locked for longer period I'll be really gratefull.
Self Locking is not easy I know. For me it is hard to give advise on that. It is about discipline. At your age that cannot be easy in general. At that age I was very sexually active. Your right though. Most on this site are older. I think there is a reason for that to tell the truth. Chastity is a choice though my friend when your self locking. At this point in your life you may want to live a little and enjoy your sexuality. Then maybe come back to chastity later. Or dont. It is after all your choice.
I'm old and there is a big difference. But the reality is no one needs to come. Plus with most cages you can find a way to cum in the cage. I read one the other day. The guy was 19 his girl locked him then she married him at 25. He was not allowed of ay kind of release so it is possible. She did however consumate their marriage on their wedding night. After that caged again. He is now 35 with no PIV and very limited releases. You just need a firm keyholder!
It does help to have a wife who's into it The first few weeks are the hardest (sorry, bad pun). Then you start to get used to no being allowed. Having said that the horniness never goes away, I feel aroused all the time, but it gets to feel more normal.
One other thing, that's a bit strange... When I get a long streak of days denied I start to feel like it would be a shame to beak the streak. I start thinking about it as an achievement and feeling competitive about setting new records. When she tells me I'm allowed to come I actually feel bad about it and almost want to ask her not to let me. Of course the thought of being inside her always gets me past this weird confusion. For me that streak mindset starts around day 30.
But how can i find keyholder? I really would like to be locked. Not just for fetish but also for practical reason. And i feel like there is no way of finding keyholder. Is there even posibility of finding keyholder when im not in realetionship?