Hey all. Appreciate all the help I got when shopping for the right cage. Wife ordered one up last night. What is the best advice you have for a newbie. I was told not to go 24/7 off the bat. Anyone have a good training routine to get me ready? I know sleeping sounds like the biggest hurdle.
Start with a hour or two a day. Then add a couple hours each day. Make all day a goal comfortably then try sleeping in it. Took me personally about two weeks to get to sleeping in it every night.
What anonymous said. Be patient watch for color change. Cold spots are bad!!! A good lubricate but don't over do it. Comfortable fit is the goal.. What someone else loves for a cage you may hate and not be able to wear. Welcome to CM Before you know it your going to be trying to figure out why you didn't do this sooner!!
Patience ...take it slow. If you havent worn a cage before, take time to get used to it. The first cage may not be the right cage for you so dont hesitate to try others if the experience isnt all you expect. 7/24 if that is you and your wife's goal, can come over time. Recommend hygiene cleaning breaks as you build up longer locks. Not everyone does them .
Congrats to the both of you. It's a wonderful feeling having your wife measure you for a new chastity belt. I'll never forget that day.
Congratulations! When you get it as long as it’s comfortable and not hurting you wear it as long as you can, as for sleeping it can be a bitch, I’d recommend trying it when your off work to start, and if you do struggle with it then book a week off work to get used to it.
Make sure you’re freshly shaved. It’ll prevent any hair getting caught in the device and provide a better visual for your wife when she chooses to play with her caged penis.
"a good training routine"? Some of the things we did: - set a schedule - not too agressive, but not that you don't progress week to week. The one I used is in my gallery, we had a break from it halfway through, but picked up again. We never got to the end of the doubling schedule because 1) there is no end, and 2) without realising it we both changed from thinking of chastity and denial as "our kink" to it being our "how we are lifestyle". - stop at the first sign of problems. Don't try to 'man it through' any skin issues, take the cage off and properly treat and sort out sores, scratches or any other minor injuries. In the long run it makes sense, and it actually gets you to where you want to be quicker. - be committed to the lifestyle. Both you and your wife will have good days and weeks and bad ones too. In the not so good times, if there isn't a specific valid reason for you to not wear your device, then just carry on wearing it. If you're unlocked for any specific reason, when that reason has passed, just automatically put the cage back on again. Set youself a particular time in the day when you'll do that, on waking, or on going to bed, are good options. Don't make it your "kink", make it your "normal", both for you and your wife. As you get more experienced with chastity and denial, no matter how old your are or how long you have been married, you'll find out things you never realised about how your body functions, and about yourself and your wife. Your relationship will grow deeper as you share such an intimate journey. As with anything in life, you tend to get out in proportion to the care and effort you put into it.
I wrote a guide that might help you with chastity journey: https://www.chastitymansion.com/for...for-24-7-cock-cage-wearing.45079/#post-509577 Krystine Kellogg made a podcast about my cock cage guide if you are interested: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/krystines-flr-podcast/id1529833492?i=1000571210960 EP: 0241 — https://www.krystinekellogg.com