How long are people truly Kept in chastity without any kind of release at all..

Currently on day 73 since I was allowed any kind of orgasm.

I feel horny all the time. I worship my wife more than ever. I find new sensations to replace orgasms. Last night I had a whole body experience created by some pretty severe ball busting. We called it a paingasm.

I've not been asked/ordered to but some of my declared limits could be open for reconsideration right now.

I've never felt this kind of sexual energy ever before.

The best bit. I've agreed that my denial will definitely be enforced until day 90. At that point we'll decide if we want to return to vanilla or I submit to my wife permanently, assuming she would accept me off course. If that happens, I've no idea when my next orgasm might be. It will be her decision entirely and I won't have a say in the matter. She could deny me indefinitely if she wanted to.

One more thing. My 50th birthday will come around before we get to day 90. I'm actually looking forward to my wife using the special day to make sure she gets more pleasure than normal to mark theb occasion while keeping me in total denial.

 

Wow, I'm only at day 23 but that is every bit what I feel. Oh, I've read stuff explaining why, yet I still find it odd. Like, who knew? All these years, something so simple, yet so powerful. Difficult, but not impossible, and so worth the effort.

Yeah, there are a ton of youtube channels with guys talking about this very thing. But most guys would rather watch porn.

 

I've been locked in chastity 24/7/365 for 4.5 years. Ms Val and Sir have only allowed me to be milked by prostate massage every other month . The cage I wear has a number seal and a pa attachment to make sure I can't pull out.

 

So… I’m “out of the cage” frequently as she likes PIV with the real thing. As far as orgasms, it’s been over 220 days.

Wife has informed me that it’ll be at least a year before an orgasms MAY be allowed. I’m just happy I get out now and then for PIV sex so I can’t complain too much.

 

I've heard conflicting info on that. I believe some of it but I also believe there are simple things you can do that mitigate the risk. This YouTube guy, Johnathan white, suggests sitting on a tennis ball and massaging your perenium and massaging your balls once a day. Keeps your prostate happy and juices flowing. I am curious what others think.

 

4 months is the longest I've been locked without the key used. I found that around 2 months in I settle in to it and the cage feels normal-ish, but the insane horny feeling don't go away.

I haven't had an orgasm or ejaculation in just under 9 months.

There is no need to ejaculate, the body will take care of it for you, but my mind is somewhat fixated on the idea of having an orgasm.

 

I'm about to hit three years. I had to unlock for a foreign holiday for a week, but no orgasm. I've also had to change devices a couple of times. Otherwise it's been 24/7/365

 

I'm locked from Sunday night to Saturday morning. She wants her toy out so she can play with it and it's my time to cleanup and shave before the next lockup.

 

I generally do about two week lockups then out for a day here lately. Might try to push for a little longer but months or years no.

 

i am thinking i must get some new tennis balls................

 

Right now I am at 85 days, 35 straight in the beginning without an orgasm and since November 1, 2 milkings and 2 vibrator on the cage orgasms. In the beginning we went every 7 days with a mix of 14 scattered every now and then. We also observe Locktober for 31 days minimum and Lent for 40 days each year. On two occasions like now, she expanded me to 100 days with milkings and vibrator cage orgasms sprinkled in and 120 straight days without any relief.

 

I am into month 4 in a few weeks and the denial of any orgasm drives me on x I just love not being able to touch or play with it x

 

Cleaning!!!!

 

Minimum 12 weeks between release that are either milking, pegging or ruined

 

Just surpassed 6 years of permanent chastity. Almost 3 years masturbation and orgasm denied. Prostrate milkings were 3 last year. Goddess wants to take them down to 2 a year, then 1, then never again. Absolutely no relief whatsoever, when she gets to that point. Probably my 65th present.

 

I've been locked up well over a year now. The only time the cage comes off is to allow me to clean things on the weekends. But I have orgasms rather frequently (once or twice a week) - all from my GF fucking me in the ass with a strap-on, though.

 

Wow I’d love to see that

 

I am currently on day 52 with only ruined orgasms

 

The exact times vary by individual, but there definitely some changes that happen to you on longer lockups.

After around one month, your hormones have settled down into a constant state, unaffected by the changes that occur from a full orgasm, and the consequent downer and readjusting back to the constant state. You also slide from desiring and craving orgasms and erections, to becoming much more submissive and just wanting to please your partner sexually. Your own physical stimulation while it becomes more intense when it does happen, also becomes less important to you.

Between one and three months, you get into a different mental state. The duration is such that you come to totally accept that you just don't have orgasms any more, you can even start to dread having one, because you've become so content with the continuous blissful horny feeling, you don't want an orgasm to spoil it and reset the clock.

After around three months nothing changes. You live a very content and stable existence of being continually aroused, but submissive, devoted to and focused on your partner.
If you can go three months, you can go indefinitely. From then, nothing changes, it's just a continuation of a lovely hormonal and mental state to be in.
That's one of the best benefits of male chastity and denial, it's long term effect on your relationship. The intimacy brings you even closer together, even if you were deeply in love before and thought you couldn't be any closer before you started this lifestyle.

 

I'm denied now for 79 days and that all rings true for me.

I'm apprehensive about how I might feel when my wife decides I'm going to have an orgasm. Well, after it's happened specifically.

I'm so weirdly blissfully happy in this state of constant frustrated hornyness.

 

This is true for me as I’m now day 114 and dread orgasm I love the horny feeling and ask my mistress to deny me any sexual orgasm at all as I’m happy to be in denial in my marriage we stopped sex 18 years ago as she said I hurt her side during sex and that was the end so 114 days is nothing t me and yet I enjoy this more than penetration I want my mistress who has my key to lock me up forever never release me and never cum again

 

As we approach the end of our agreed 90 day trial period of submission and control with total orgasm denial, we face a decision point.

Return to vanilla or I submit my sexual independence to my wife and she accepts it and controls every sexual experience I have for the rest of our lives together.

I was so impressed with bondinchas post that I sent it to her. I think it's important that before she commits to accept my submission and take total ownership of my sexual agency that she understands the implications and responsibility that comes with that power.

I sent her that post and concluded with the following;

I'm actually apprehensive about how I might feel when you decide I'm going to have an orgasm. Well, after it's happened specifically.

I'm so weirdly blissfully happy in this state of constant frustrated hornyness.

This isn't supposed to influence you in any certain direction. I was just impressed with the description that matches my own experience so closely.

You control when I have an orgasm and the affect it has on me. That will be your decision and my submission to you means that I accept and find satisfaction in whatever I experience as a result. Whatever affects an orgasm has on me will be a consequence of your will.

I'm thrilled to consider how much power you will have to direct and control a very big aspect of my life.

I love you so much.

Maggot. Xx