My Bijou arrived on Thursday around 1pm. By 4pm it had been locked on as frenum piercing had healed properly. Last night my wife confirmed with me that it is now locked on until my 50th birthday next year with the only permitted unlocking would be for cleaning. Once we get to my 50th birthday she will then decide if it stays on for good, another year or more or if she wants to unlock it then. It depends on how well I get on with using fingers, tongue and her wand. Seeing as I am pretty much impotent now due to an operation on my bladder a couple of years ago I cannot forsee it being removed at all.
Good luck. Its a journey I hope you find positive. Curious though, being impotent, do you even still get "cage alerts" and excessive unexpected tightening?
If you're impotent, why the need for the cage? Is it mostly symbolic i.e. a symbol of her dominance / control of you?
well praps its cos he keeps fiddle about with it cos a lot of men keep doing that and having a cage lock on him will stop him doing it.
Yes that is pretty much it. I have zero success at getting an erection even with viagra. I do get a very small ejaculation but so little it's more like a dribble if anything. As I have said to the wife if I can't get hard enough for her to enjoy it then it should be locked up as no use for it. She has agreed yes that should be the case. She locked me up before she went away with work for a few days and left the key in the safe that only she knows the combination for and the override key for it is frozen in a large block of ice in the freezer. I am looking forward to the day when she decides that it will be permanent as have already told her the decision on that is only hers to make as I have already made the decision that I want this permanently.
Well the cage hasn't come off since it was locked on except for cleaning and for an MRI scan. I have an operation next week on my shoulder and it will be off for a week or so afterwards. My wife announced to me last night when it goes back on that will be it. It will then be permanent.
How frequently did you "fiddle" and "dribble" before you started wearing the cage? Does your wife ever play with you and bring you to orgasm? And if so, how intense is the feeling?
I'm interested in what you can feel despite your inability to get erect. I once found myself unable to get erect due to some drugs I was taking. Despite that, my wife insisted on sucking my very small, very flaccid cock. I was utterly surprised when she managed to bring me to full orgasm and ejaculation without any twitch in my cock whatsoever. She repeated the feat several times during that period of our lives. (Before submission and chastity) Have you experimented with prostate orgasms?