Chatting with the wife a while back, admitting to playing with toys etc and chastity came up as a joke… she asked and i admitted never done nor thought of…. this did get me intrigued enough to look at it, to the point I ordered a cage to trial it out. Let the wife know and she tells me i ruined the surprise as she was about to order one… this should have been my first hint. Over the last few days since it was brought up we have both read up on it seems and she started teasing me, which in hindsight shows she started planning this… fast forward to tonight (cage due to arrive in a day or two according to tracking), and we laughing at a few funny videos on insta… one pops up (cannot confirm if planned or not) that talks about why there are 3,6 and 12 packs of condoms Ie high schoolers every fri,sat,sun, college student twice every fri, sat and sun while married men get it once a month. so anyways i laugh and say at least we not so bad, to which we somehow end up with a bet on who would cave first, me or her from the moment the cage arrives. 3 months is the total bet. if i concede before then or we last till the , she wins and gets $2000 to do with as she pleases. If she drops out before, then I get that. i am in two minds, both excited to do the lockup, bit also unsure if i really want to be… seems like she managed to manipulate the situation on me.
Looks like she's getting 2 grand. 3 months is in insane amount of time to start. Yes I know certain articles recommend it. You really need to work your way up to 24/7 in a cage. Just putting it on first time throwing away key is unreasonable and could be unsafe with fit, chafing etc. Do a few hours here and there. All day then overnight etc.
$2000?! That's ALOT of money! Hope you can afford that, because it sounds like you have mixed feelings and you're starting to doubt you can make it to 3 months. I started chastity 2 months back, but I only started with a few days at a time and just last month I worked my way up to full-week sessions. There's no way I could start with 3 months right off the bat, even if I stood to gain $10K for it. I thought I was crazy, but this!? ROFL! Damn! I Gotta salute you!
It would be a miracle if your first cage fits well enough to wear for 3 months AND you don't figure out how to pull out of the cage for a sneaky wank. But good luck anyway.
Wow.! Pretty much started out the same way. I am into light B/D just some cuffs and a paddle for her we had . I told her about a woman that was always hitting on me at work. Then I was asked if I would wear a cage just to work just to give her peace of mind. After some thought. In this case. Damned if you do and Damned if you don't. I took the easy way out . Wearing it to work was exciting and a worry at the same time. You know. Is someone going to see it. Well they didn't. After a few weeks she said: you know if you left it on at night you wouldn't have to put it back on in the morning. That was 11 years ago. I wear now 24/7 and still the man out in the world, but at home. I am her submissive. Have a great journey.