Is there an age limit to Chastity?

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    My wife and I have been at chastity for a long time but only about 14 months ago did it become a serious 24/7/365 scenario with absolute orgasm denial for me. This has been the most amazing experience and we have grown so much, and neither of us want it to end. She has also made it clear to me that she cannot and will not tolerate me not wearing a device again.

    I wear a full steel BB belt with extra pa security an so this is easy for her to achieve. I have come to know how to remain clean and hygienic and since orgasms for me are off the table, there is no real reason for me not to wear a device indefinitely.

    Having said that this week we had a serious conversation about how long this can really go on. She is 58 and I am 61 and as we get older and realize the complications that come with age could be around the corner. She asked me "can I see my self practically wearing a device into my 70's?"

    We are both still healthy and don't foresee any problems for now, but have said maybe we should set a "soft limit" at 65 and then review the next 5 years, and then maybe annually from then on? As one ages we have realized that things we never thought about before (even when we were 40 or 50) are becoming relevant.

    I would wish that this never ends and she would be the first to chose it NOT to - but how do you all think about this - is there an age limit?
     
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    Wife and I are a little younger than yall but been at this longer - off/on for ~10yrs, that being said, it didn’t get fully real and serious until I was pierced about a year and an half ago, and she’s now embracing this as a routine lifestyle and doesn’t want me out of the device unless she wants to play. She’s also embracing full orgasm denial (still tough some days for me), and we’re about 5 days shy of 6 months since I’ve had an O. To that end, I agree, I don’t want the “high” to end or the feeling of intensity I have when I am allowed inside her… and she agrees and has said she can see us doing this a very long time.

    Our only real worry as we get older are health issues that might get in the way, but common sense can prevail if/when that happens.
     
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    Your as old as you feel...enjoy, why set an age will you stop if still enjoying it?

    I have been in chastity for many years, if anything it gets easier with time as you dont have the urges of a 20 year old. As long as she wears her keys i shall wear a CB.
     
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    I agree. In my experience being locked up increases in importance with age. I'm well past 70 and I have been locked in a full belt every night and most of the daytime for the past 7 weeks or so. It keeps us feeling young. I suppose it will have to come to an end sometime, but not for a while I hope.
     
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    You will likely find that your libido diminishes with age, to one degree or another. I have found that the more active a lifestyle I can maintain, my libido and resulting interest in being caged, while maybe not increased, it certainly has not diminished. I exercise daily, watch my diet and fundamental metics closely and play pickleball about 6 days per week. At 79, I don't foresse anything changing for quite a while..
     
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    no age limit for caging as I am older too but it still makes me horny with it on
     
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    Over 45 years ago my wife moved in her girlfriend after discovering her bisexuality. 10 years later they both denied me an orgasm and have not had intercourse since then. No commercial chastity cages back then nor internet really. Although we were kinky as hell, we never watched porn or even looked up things. We did not know we were considered a poly triad. Had no idea that chastity was a "thing". Heck, my wife did not say she was bisesxual until she was in her late 60's and we are now in our 70's.

    I have been locked up for 14 years with a few week break at the end of each year to get my penis to get back to its normal size and to discuss what to do going forward, what worked and what did not. I am so comfortable in my 3D printed cage that I feel weird when I am not locked up. I do not remember what it feels like to penetrate a woman but have had many decades of fetish sex with the girls including me in their bed almost nightly. Lots of threesomes but mostly the girls were the only ones getting orgasms.

    So you can go as long as you are able. At our age we have pauses due to surgeries, I just had two, an other medical issues, but as soon as I can, I am locked again. Sex is always for my wife's pleasure as she is not that into penises. More into girls but loves me. She enjoys making me moan in pain as that turns her on and likes a massage before sex. I am usually shackled with nipple clips on. Sometimes my ass is paddled if I was disrespectful to her during the week. My wife usually only orgasms on her vibrator while squeezing my balls or twisting my nipple clips and she uses very painful ones. My treat is performing oral on her for out wedding anniversary each year and on other special occasions I am allowed to touch her vagina until she orgasms and then comes a few more times on her vibrator. She has always reached orgasm quickly and multiple times. When we used to have intercourse she often came while I entered her and then came a few more times until I did too.

    We lasted so long because we leave our kinks in the bedroom. In there my wife is dominant. Once outside the bedroom, despite being locked in chastity, we lead a normal married life and as a product of many years of a gifted student education, I run the marriage as far as money is concerned. Plus we have a policy of never doing something that the other is dead set against. We compromise or do not do it. In this way we have had a very good 51 years of marriage and a kinky sex life. We were told by a BDSM couple that to last we need to leave our fetishes in the bedroom and they were right. No one is really going to be a slave for a long time. Once the initial excitement wears off, most move on to something else. I have been there and woke up one day not feeling like being a slave to my wife or her girlfriend. It is not a way to have a long lasting marriage and most of the stuff you read online, blogs included are made up to attract horny men. They have to spice it up or no one is going to read that they went out to eat and then saw a movie and that was it since their last blog post. Porn also caters to fantasy and is scripted with pauses in filming to change things or get the guy hard again using positions best for filming than real life.

    My advice is to be as kinky as you want and you can last a lifetime doing it as long as it does not intrude on your normal life.
     
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    I hope there is no age limit, as we started this chastity journey last year at age 67.
     
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    There may be some limit. 90? 95? But with testosterone supplements and viagra I feel as horny and as hard as when I was 30. So, no, there's no age limit. And I'm asking to be buried in my cage.
     
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    No, why should there be!
     
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    I say no age limit.. Show your wife how much you love her by staying locked up and letting her control your orgasms. to be extra safe let her use an Aneros tool or something similar to "milk" your prostate,.
     
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    106 is the official chastity age limit.
     
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    :)
     
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    No.

    Yes, it is forbidden after 106.
     
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    Yay 45 years to go before its forbidden!!!
     
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    Seriously though it does seem that it is possible to do this for longer than we thought - seems into the 70's is really possible. We are looking forward to quite few more years then - especially my wife! Thanks for your input!
     
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    You may remain in chastity for as long as 2 weeks after your death.
     
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    "Rules is rules" as they say!
     
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    I would say enjoy chastity for as long as you feel you can. If longer than expected awesome, if shorter than at least you went all in and got to experience what you had always wanted to.

    I would think chastity has no ending age limit. I would say chastity starting age limit should be when the person is mature enough to not be easily manipulated and persuade by others. As in not a teenager. Starting age should be when the individual is mentally and emotionally mature enough to make sounds choices on their own.
     
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    I'm not qualified to answer sir. What I would say is that we are 46m 53f. She's been waiting on me so not cumming alone. Her orgasms have been almost instantaneous, very intense... and very wet. I say keep doing what you're doing. As you can probably see above I like women who are older than me so have no doubts I will enjoy licking my mistress years from now. I say keep going.
     
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    I have told my wife that she can have me cremated with me wearing my cage. If she choses, she can retrieve it from my ashes when she spreads them off a Colorado mountain top, to use it on her next man. My only ask is that she be buried with her key!
     
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    Oh crap...I'm only 62...;)...I have a way to go...:)
     
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    I dont think there is an age limit but what I find is that as one gets older the bodies biggest sex organ, the brain, becomes more and more important. Libido definitely suffers with age but my brain is still keen on playing.
    My biggest regret now is that I no longer get spontaneous erections so I never swell in the cage.
    It takes a long time before the desire for an orgasm becomes pressing so long lock ups become easy to survive.
    But the need for verbal teasing, exciting the brain, is very important.
     
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