Double Chastity . . . . . for you Both!?

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    #1 Backdoorlarry, Oct 22, 2023
    What if you were both in chastity at the same time?
    Now I know this isn't the chastity thing we all know and most of you love, but how about a new twist to the chastity life?
    Why does the man have to submit to the woman all the time when you both can be submissive to each other?
    Make a list of all of your kinks and fetishes for both of you to see. Agree on what you'll participate in ahead of time so there's no arguing or disappointment when your turn comes up.
    Seems like a win/-win situation. If you know your partner is way to vanilla then I wouldn't ask

    Denial for you both.
    Teasing for you both.
    Cuddling for you both.

    Odd days of the month he serves her.
    Even days of the month she serves him.

    Last day of odd months (or every other) he gets unlocked and pleasured according to his list. (Pick one from the list.)
    Last day of even months (or every other) she get unlocked and pleasured according to her list. (Pick one from the list.)

    Have trusting or supervised clean up time when needed.

    Let's add to this if you want.
     
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    #2 Tracker1, Oct 22, 2023
    I asked my KH about this some time ago and she just laughed at me.
     
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    #3 Backdoorlarry, Oct 22, 2023
    She probably wouldn't laugh if you were holding her key.
     
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    #4 Chaste J., Oct 22, 2023
    I can tell you for sure that Mrs Chaste wouldn't be up for that at all. :)
     
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    #5 Backdoorlarry, Oct 22, 2023
    I wonder if some couple might be up for it...
     
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    #6 Chaste J., Oct 22, 2023
    I'll keep an eye on responses. Could be interesting. But my feeling is that most women who have a chaste husband or partner are unlikely to want to alter the balance and the control. After all in most cases it was the bloke who wanted it.
     
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    #7 Backdoorlarry, Oct 22, 2023
    There's always the newbies and the vanillas
     
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    #8 ConSUBmation, Oct 23, 2023
    My wife “might” have entertained something like this when we first started MC and she was unsure about being my key holder. Now that she’s all in, the idea of being submissive to me at all doesn’t pass the laugh test. She’s already said that I’ll be buried in my cage, which seems pretty final to me.
     
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    #9 squier, Oct 23, 2023
    I discussed with my wife what she would think about alternating chastity and got an answer that was somewhat expected, but still surprised me!

    She said it just happened that I was the one who wanted chastity and deserved it. This would be a fact we have explored and discussed in detail over the years. On the one hand, I need chastity, teasing, denial, corporal punishment and humiliation as "my sex" - she, on the other hand, also needs some submission, but above all she needs penetrative sex and wants to be used sexually without inhibitions.

    I get my sex from her, she gets her sex from me (note: through sex toys). If she agreed to be chaste, it would only be in the context of a cuckold marriage with a real dominant man who would then rule over both of us. And therefore also about the sex of each of us. She doesn't think I'd get off very well and besides, she wouldn't want to anyway.
    Result: my wife chaste? Yes, but under conditions that neither of us would want. It's probably better left as it is.
     
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    #10 LoveIt, Oct 23, 2023
    Not sure chastity for her makes sense. Denial for men leads to very different mindset than denial for women. Obviously it can be a nice kink for people, who are switch, but IMHO that's all it can be. Not a lifestyle, just a kink.
     
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    #11 Backdoorlarry, Oct 23, 2023
    Do what works best for you. I'm just throwing out a new idea.
     
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    #12 Backdoorlarry, Oct 23, 2023
    Do what works best for you. I'm just throwing out a new idea.
     
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    #13 Backdoorlarry, Oct 23, 2023
    Might be a fun "kink" for some.
     
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    #14 Backdoorlarry, Oct 23, 2023
    Hoping to hear some additions and not as many "I don't think so's".
     
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    #15 latexbound, Oct 23, 2023
    I remember discussing this at length with my girlfriend/Mistress/keyholder many years ago, the idea that we hold each other's key. It became a conversation about who'd be first to release the other, and how to synchronise releases with that dynamic. It was a fun conversation that ended with the mutual conclusion that we'd soon be trying to kill one another. Literally. So we parked it.....
     
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    #16 Backdoorlarry, Oct 23, 2023
    Sorry it's not for you. I was hoping to get some additions to my idea.
     
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    #17 madams-sissysub, Oct 23, 2023
    Just the same here! About being buried in my cage that is!
     
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    #18 Mr_anonymous, Oct 23, 2023
    Being it is a male chasity forum not sure it's best place for the idea. It changes entire dynamic of it. I know for certain she'd never go for it and I'm absolutely fine with that.
     
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    #19 BavarianWoman, Oct 23, 2023
    I can't help it, but this idea goes around in my mind.
     
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    i did ask Mistress and She telled me to stop being silly or i wud be paddle.
     
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