Comfort Sizing Functionality

I sent my wife a picture about a month ago of a chastity cage with a text telling her that I wanted her to lock me up and have me pleasure her. She immediately ordered the cage from my text. When I got home I ask her what she thought and she told me that she had already ordered it. I had to tell her that there were measurements that we needed to get first so she canceled the order and I guess this is where the story begins.

My first cage was a Sung by SMBSM. I liked the way it felt and looked. The Sung was listed as 75 mm or 2.95276 inches in length. All the sites tell you how to measure and what to measure with, where to measure from. They tell you to measure standing up, hanging, held out at 90 degrees, not after a shower when warm, not while excited, use string use ruler use fabric measuring tape and on and on. Being new to the whole world of buying a device is confusing. I followed directions best I could and made the plunge to purchase my first cage. I waited in anticipation for two weeks tracking my purchase hoping I didn’t screw up and get scammed and it finally came in the mail. I’ve wanted to do this for years. My wife and I had talked about it years ago but the cost wasn’t in our budget at the time. I opened it up, gave it a good antibacterial wash, found which base ring fit best, applied some oil and on it went. Loved it! Didn’t want to take it off. Was extremely excited and filled it out nicely. I’m a grower, I mean I can go from nothing sitting to a good 5 inches plus erect. I wore it for hours, gave it a break for awhile and wore it some more. As the next few days over the weekend went by I wanted to wear it as much as I could to see how it would be long term. The days passed and I moved around the house usually with just a shirt on being teased by my wife and orally pleasuring her upon request. I began to realize as the days went by that it was too big as in too long. When I first opened it up my wife looked at me and said that looks small. Well it wasn’t too small when I wasn’t excited and wasn’t standing and especially when I sat down.

Here in lies my problem. When I sit down, bend over or squat my dick retreats towards my body like a wack a mole at a carnival game. You know I never really realized how much it retreats since most the time you have cloths on and it’s hidden away from view. So now with a cage on and running around the house naked it becomes obvious that my purchase was too long for wearing extended lengths of time. I even had it actually come off at one point during a pegging session which was rather awkward. I had to admit I had missed measured somehow and needed a shorter cage. I didn’t have problems with the base ring size or the diameter but the shrinking dick just wasn’t working out with this cage. It was also an issue with urinating since I had to coach it out of hiding to work it to the end so the stream would clear the opening at the tip.

My wife and I decided that we would purchase another cage. After some research and still using the same type of measuring mindset we decided to spend more money and get a CB branded cage. The Mr. Stub seems more fitting, or so I thought. It was 1 3/4 or 44.45 mm in cage length. That would be about a quarter inch shorter than the Sung. Maybe I have a mental hang up or I’m just mathematically challenged but hey we thought this would be better or something. I mean come on even the name suggests smaller right? Mr Stub, doesn’t it ring of humiliation. Oh you have a stub, little dick, small prick. You get the idea, anyway. So once again I wait for delivery. This time since it wasn’t coming from overseas, some place in China I think, it came in about a week. Great! It arrived while I was out running errands. I walk in the door and my wife is wearing a silky black robe and she orders me to go get a shower and put on my cage. Excitement and anticipation grows and of course so does my cock. The CB design is a bit more complicated than my other cage was. Five pieces to get in place before the cage along with lubricant on my fingers and a rising member made for a few pinches and a bit of anxiety till it was finally on.

The weekend ahead, along with the following week being on vacation was very exciting. I was in an almost constant state of arousal as my wife put the key on a necklace around her neck and I gave her daily foot rubs and erotic massage on our massage table which by the way works out great for all this. I worked to pleasure her in so many ways and gave her multiple orgasms day after day building up my sexual tension and desires to do anything that she wanted. The week ended in me being allowed to cum the morning I had to go back on the road. I drive truck for a living and I’m gone 5,6 even 7 days a week. Part of my motivation for caging besides just finding it exciting was to curb my desire to masturbate while gone and away from my wife. The road gets lonely and pornography and masturbation fills a need. The problem is that it takes away desire when I get home. Whatever the scientific explanation is with hormones and testosterone or whatever I felt I was cheating my wife of sexual attention. Cage it! Lock it up!

I’m on day six today out on the road and sadly I’ve found that the CB-X Mr. Stub isn’t working out well as a long term device for me either. I drive anywhere from 6 to close to 11 hours at a time. It’s not at all comfortable to wear driving. The base ring is bulky and I’ve realized that I still shrink up at least a heads length short of the cage length. Hygiene and urination are difficult in a truck. Truck drivers are forced to pee in a bottle and often need to be creative with #2. Think camping backpacking and leave no trace outside kinda stuff. Delivery locations often give no access to toilet facilities.

I know this has been a long rabbit trail to asking a question but if anyone has had similar experiences or can relate to my dilemma and has any suggestions I would love to hear your comments. I’m typing this as I’m sitting at a customer location off loading 6500 gallons of motor oil. Sharing my story has helped pass some time. I hope if nothing else it has been helpful or amusing or even exciting to hear someone else’s story unfold as they begin exploring chastity. Peace.

 

Thanks. Did I post this in the wrong place? I’m still not on to the navigating this site very well.

 

Thanks for the info. My wife told me when I got home today that I’d have to make do for now between the two I have. Guess cost is still a factor for us.