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    Hi all,

    I’m newe here, and new to chastity altogether. I’m 40 years old, single and living in Germany. I’ve just ordered my first chastity cage, it’s the Vice mini. It’ll arrive on Monday, hopefully. Can’t wait to try it on and start my first chastity experience at Wednesday, when I got waxed at the Brazilian waxing studio. ;) I really hope the cage can help me with my porn addiction, as I have been masturbating 3 to 5 times a day, recently, sometimes even more.

    If anybody has any advice or so, I’d be glad to hear them. :)

    Have a nice evening, everybody!
     
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    Welcome. I hope you enjoy our community.
     
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    mmmh I don't think chastity will be of any help with that honestly. I watch porn when in chastity, prob even more than usual (which is very little actually).

    Good luck anyway, and welcome.
     
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    Hello and welcome. Good luck
     
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    Take your time with the Vice Mini trying out the various sizing options. It can take some time to get it dialed in and get used to putting it on. Their videos were helpful to me. I replaced the lock with a Masterlock the doesn't corrode as easily from getting wet in the shower or pool. I've had a couple anti-pullouts crack where they pivot, but not to worry - they can still be worn while you wait for a replacement which is free for the first year. I wear mine 24x7 and have for 18 months.

    I have a masturbation addiction. Chastity, my commitment to my wife, and her commitment to me have solved that problem for me. I lost my desire to watch porn once I asked her to help me and hold my keys. No point in viewing porn if you can't wank and don't want to cheat and disappoint your partner.

    Good luck!
     
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    Thank you all for welcoming me and thank you little guy for the detailed advice! I really appreciate it. That’s exactly how I feel, getting rid of my masturbation/ porn addiction. I’ve ordered plastic padlocks for when I’m ready for prolonged wearing the cage. They are corrosion safe and better suited for traveling. ;)
     
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    The plastic numbered locks are not as thick as the padlock bar and can cause a little play in the cage and may require a tighter / smaller spacer to control the gap between the cage and ring. I ended up just using a metal padlock. I went through airport security in the U.S. twice with no issue. The first time, I had the cage secured with a zip tie and had the metal padlock in my pocket since it was the only metal. No detection. The return trip, I had the original on the device and was wearing it. No detection. The padlock has less metal than a belt buckle so it makes sense for me. Germany might be different than the US.
     
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    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    Thank you :)
     
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    Welcome! I hope you enjoy your new chastity device. :)
     
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    Welcome. I hope you find chastity to your liking.
     
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    Thank you! I sincerely hope, I’ll like chastity, too! :)
     
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    So how is it going after the first few days?
     
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    Welcome to the mansion
     
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    Pretty good, thank you

    But I’m horny as hell!
     

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    It looks like you have a pretty large spacer on that. Have you had any issues with your balls slipping thru the gap yet?
     
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    No, no problems at all.
     
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    I don't know if my balls shrunk over time from wearing the cage, but I had one slip thru at about 6 months and had to go to a smaller spacer.
     
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    I think that looks very neat and pretty. (Interested that you chose pink.) I guess the tension between feeling horny and powerless to masturbate is what it's all about for you. Have you had any thoughts about KHs ?
     
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    Oh, thank you very much! I’m into SPH, so I chose pink for the additional humiliation. :)

    I’m trying to find a female keyholder. I’m willing to try Locktober this year and without a keyholder I most certainly won’t make it.
     
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    If you can direct your pent up hormones towards meeting new people and connect without any expectations, you could end up with a KH before you know it. You'll be much more attractive as a chaste man.
     
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    Thank you! :) I sincerely hope, you’re right. I’ll be on a street food festival on Saturday. It’ll be my first outdoor experience with the cage on. I’m very open minded to meeting new people. Would be awesome! :D
     
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    Have you had it on permanently since you received it? Are you resisting the temptation to remove it and touch yourself?
     
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    Yes, the third day, today.
    But the night was terrible as was my morning wood! :eek:
     
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