Inadvertently Going to Break my Record

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    #1 FrustratedHubby, Jun 28, 2023
    My wife is not dominant and our sex life is pretty vanilla, but she jumped at the chance to keep me locked, except for her use. It's not a dominant/submissive situation. I'm allowed out once a week for sex, unless the schedule or circumstances don't accommodate. My record is only 16 days. Tonight is our anniversary, but we only have a small window. I hope to be let out tonight, but it looks like it might be a couple of months after tonight. I'm worried what it will do to me. I don't know what I'm asking exactly. I just needed to say it. I know many of you go much longer, but after a couple weeks, I can't think straight. If you like, I suppose I could give updates from time to time.
     
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    #2 madams-sissysub, Jun 28, 2023
    Hope you broke that record! Congratulations if you did!
     
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    #3 Shellysboytoy, Jun 28, 2023
    A couple of months when you are used to weekly? That is a big jump. Care to share why the sudden increase in lockup?

    My Wife typically likes to let me out every two weeks. But in the spring She pushed me to six weeks. Some weeks were more difficult than others. Weeks we were apart for work were actually easier, but more frustrating!

    When we were both home She'd tease me until I was dizzy and my skin felt like it was on fire. Those weeks made me want to tear the cage off. Way more difficult! However, WAY more fulfilling!

    The best way to describe it is the difference between a walk and a park and running a marathon. One is more relaxing with no sense of accomplishment. The other is far more difficult but there's a sense of achievement on the other side.

    Best of luck.
     
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    #4 LesterBallard, Jun 28, 2023
    Good luck
     
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    #5 starflyer, Jun 28, 2023
    Stay with it
     
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    #6 FrustratedHubby, Jun 28, 2023
    Just starting today. Yesterday was my last release. Wish me luck!
     
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    #7 FrustratedHubby, Jun 28, 2023
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    It is not a fun story at all. We have sex when we are alone (just the 2 of us). I'm not going to share details, but my daughter is having major surgery and recovery is likely to be long. I don't expect much teasing during this time. More important things to worry about, but I think back to when I could eliminate stress any time I took shower... And I did! I'm well known for my ability to handle emotions. I'm going to have to stay strong for everyone without that daily stress reliever. The past few months in chastity... That stress was fun because it was just work, chores, you know, the daily grind. I don't know how I'll handle REAL problems.
     
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    #8 SissyKimberly, Jun 29, 2023
    i went 50 days but i took my chastity off at night to sleep, my Mistress had me do tasks during that time period. Like sucking my dildo, nipple play, anal play which kept me very horny and leaking. At the end of 50 days i was allowed to have a ruined orgasm and eat my cum. She has me doing this all the time for the past 9 months and I love it.
     
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    #9 Welsh boy, Jun 29, 2023
    I’ve just broken my record. It’s been 31 days since my last release, previous was 28 days. I’m usually locked 2 to 3 weeks at a time before my wife wants me in her. This time feels different though, she seems more satisfied with our sex lives with me being locked and doesn’t seem to want me unlocked. I’ve know idea how much longer I shall be locked for, but I’m both excited and scared!
     
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    #10 SissyKimberly, Jun 29, 2023
    Well the longer you are locked up the more you will want to please your Wife, that should be your only concern how can i please Her. your orgasms and pain does not matter only Her.
     
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    #11 Welsh boy, Jun 29, 2023
    Totally agree! That’s exactly how I feel now.
     
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    #12 FrustratedHubby, Jul 8, 2023
    My daughter is recovering much better than anyone expected! I'm on day 12 and having such a hard time today. I need to cum so bad I can't even think straight. My wife does such a good job keeping me locked up and I'm so proud of her for not letting me out.
     
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    #13 Queens servant73, Jul 8, 2023
    Good news about your daughter, it’s horrible when your children are sick or hurt! Hopefully a full and speedy recovery!
    As far as the not important stuff…hopefully your Wife starts to realize just how much power she has over you and keeps pushing your boundaries. Honestly it starts to become an addiction for you if you keep focusing on her, and eventually you’ll enjoy the frustration of tease and denial. If you’re really lucky, she’ll figure out how to use ruined orgasms to give you a reward but keep you in the lust driven mindset.
    It does take a while to get there, but longer and longer lockups after each little bit of freedom and orgasms will help for sure. And once it all clicks for the Wife, look out :)
     
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    #14 Chili-boy, Jul 9, 2023
    I am on day 68 of our agreed zero orgasm lifestyle (for me)
     
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    #15 FrustratedHubby, Jul 15, 2023
    I'm at 18 days today. That is a new record and I don't know when I'll be let out. Last night my wife sat on top of me, kissed me passionately, allowed me to play with her gorgeous tits, then said it wasn't a good time to unlock me. Why does all of this make me so happy? There is a part of me that wants to stay locked forever.
     
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    #16 SissyKimberly, Jul 15, 2023
    i cannot wear my cage all day i have it on up to 18 hours, as of today 7/15/23 i have not had release or sissygasm for 3 months. i had a medical issue, so last week i started doing my tasks again for Mistress Erika, maybe She might allow me to have a ruined orgasm. i do not feel that a sissy should be able to have a full on orgasm, that pleasure sould only be for Real Women.
    sissy kimmy
     
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    #17 SissyKimberly, Jul 15, 2023
    Then sissy up and stay locked for Your Wife, make it all about Her and not yourself. She will love your submissiveness
     
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    #18 FrustratedHubby, Jul 15, 2023
    Thanks! I'm not a sissy. It's always been for her! I'm proud of her for slowly embracing her power. She's becoming increasingly more confident in giving me orders, humiliating me (lightly), and realizing her female superiority.
     
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    #19 SissyKimberly, Jul 15, 2023
    Terribly sorry about the sissy part, you are very lucky to have a Wife that understands.
     
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    #20 FrustratedHubby, Jul 15, 2023
    No problem! I'm not insulted. Just wanted to explain the situation
     
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    #21 Headtrip, Jul 15, 2023
    @FrustratedHubby at some point it starts getting easier, or at least you get used to managing it. Hang in there until your wife decides other. Maybe channel that energy into pleasing her any way she wants. My wife was very vanilla but really wanted chastity, it didnt take her long to realize she has better O's with all kinds of toys and me locked.

    The feeling of being out of control, however, I havent gotten used to (in years). Instead I have learned to embrace it and just enjoy the ride.

    My advice? Throw your calendar away. Tell/show her how wonderful she is, and enjoy!
     
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    #22 laohuboy, Jul 16, 2023
    Good luck and hope your daughter gets well soon.

    I'm in training now for Locktober now so I'm going for 2 weeks this time - no orgasms allowed, full or ruined. Might get prostate milked or pegged if my KH decides to.
     
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    #23 true42, Jul 16, 2023
    Good advice. Especially if your wife hates you counting the days! (As mine does.) I was forbidden to count, so I don't actually know how long I've gone (at least not after a few days, just because I can remember when last we made love). It's actually improved her life having me not count, so I'm happy with the result.
     
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    #24 FrustratedHubby, Jul 17, 2023
    I'm at 20 days now. Every second is a new record
     
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    #25 FrustratedHubby, Jul 17, 2023
    Good for you both! I'm not forbidden from counting, but last the I mentioned how long I had been locked, I was scolded. I keep it to myself, mostly.
     
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