Orgasm denial, how long really?

Discussion in 'Chastity and orgasm denial' started by Her_LM, Mar 13, 2023.

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Denied for how long?

  1. Once a weak.

    61 vote(s)
    22.6%

  2. Once a month.

    101 vote(s)
    37.4%

  3. Once every three months.

    55 vote(s)
    20.4%

  4. Once every six months.

    19 vote(s)
    7.0%

  5. Once a year.

    11 vote(s)
    4.1%

  6. Over one year.

    41 vote(s)
    15.2%
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    #76 littleLicker, Apr 10, 2023
    ....love her so much for it....
     
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    #77 BavarianWoman, Apr 10, 2023
    Then you should kiss her, downstairs.
     
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    #78 JaySaysYes, Apr 10, 2023
    In the kitchen?
     
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    You realy earned your badge.;)
     
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    #80 Maelgwyn, Apr 10, 2023
    One week is a constant turn-on for me, fueling the appetite to go down and please her in every way, two to three weeks creates an itching need and a real physical suffering from aching "blue balls", from that point onwards in my experience it eases a bit and leaves an increasing yearning to experience some kind of sexual pleasure again and a kind of insecureness where this path might ever lead, combined with a proneness towards submissive sexual fantasies and daydreams...
     
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    #81 littleLicker, Apr 10, 2023
    i did it one minute ago. :)
     
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    #82 BavarianWoman, Apr 10, 2023
    :love:
     
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    #83 dereknor, Apr 24, 2023
    I have always been super fascinated by women who demand permanent denial so my denial is usually counted in month or years. The longest has been 16 month. But i would love to be never allowed to orgasm again
     
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    #84 littleguy3, Apr 24, 2023
    :eek:
     
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    #85 Chirone, Apr 24, 2023
    That's quite impressive. Did you practice milking?
     
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    #86 dereknor, Apr 26, 2023
    No milking, no drop of cum left my body (luckily i dont get wet dreams)
     
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    #87 Sherrie’sPleasure, Apr 27, 2023
    Three months 2days so far…
     
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    #88 DriftingHumanoid, May 10, 2023
    Full on orgasms around every six months. Usually a couple ruined orgasms between.
     
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    #89 Her_LM, May 10, 2023
    This is what my k/h is wanting to achieve, an orgasm maybe once every six months, but NONE in between, so far, she’s doing just fine she says. Heading towards our 5 month period now, with no issues at all, she says, she finds it so easy to deny me now. I am kept horny every single day, I love it.
     
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    #90 DriftingHumanoid, May 10, 2023
    It’s definitely doable. Not necessarily easy though. I’m definitely horny and super eager to please Her in whatever way. I wish both of y’all good luck in achieving the goal.
     
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    #91 FLRAdvocate, May 10, 2023
    Do you have a functioning prostate? Because the body doesn't absorb prostatic fluid. It has to get rid of it either through ejaculation or leaking. so if you're not leaking in some way, you're not being truthful here (if you have a functioning prostate gland).
     
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    #92 Her_LM, May 10, 2023

    I leak like crazy when being teased. I hope that means I’m ok!
     
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    #93 FLRAdvocate, May 10, 2023
    It absolutely does mean everything is working like it should, yes. lol
     
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    #94 Her_LM, May 11, 2023
    Thank you, that was from my k/h, she’s happy that everything is working ok, and no harm will come to me.
    She’s even more determined to make me wait longer now, thanks! :lockkey:
     
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    #95 dereknor, May 11, 2023
    Yes i have a functional prostate.
    I dont know if the fluid gets absorbed or not, i couldnt find a good source for that information. But i had no leaking at all in 16 month. So the body has some way to get rid of it.
     
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    #96 littleguy3, May 11, 2023
    It's been about once a month for the past year, our first year using chastity 24x7. She's now making it clear that once a month is too often. We're going to start trending towards about once every 7 weeks or about 7-8 per year. We'll see how she reacts to that. My last 7 week lockup just a couple of months ago didn't seem to phase her.
     
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    #97 knightly, May 11, 2023
    We're heading on a similar path. I've had 3 orgasms this year. Just finished month 2 of a 3-month stint, ending on June 9th. But that doesn't mean release or orgasm. She has really embraced the dynamic and has zero hesitation to keep me locked.

    As scary as it is to say...and as you have mentioned in your journal about the initial thought of a 90-day lockup (scared me too). It is doable, and enlightening to see what a long lockup feels like. A week used to feel short, now a month seems short. And I definitely don't want to know when it might happen. That would be too much anticipation, especially if it doesn't. :)

    I think once every month and a half to 2 months is reasonable, actually.
     
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    #98 Deleted member 97060, May 11, 2023
    This month it will be 5 weeks then it will be monthly if I am good. But of course I am required to eat it and they will be ruined orgasm Miss says a real penis orgasm are for free men not caged subs
     
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    #99 Subbysubsub, May 11, 2023
    Before chastity I would cum 3 times a day on average. So honestly about 90 times a month.

    Now that I’m chaste and submissive to my wife she lets me cum about two times a month. I suspect with time it will naturally become fewer and fewer. I don’t have a goal in mind, I am happy with a variety so I never know if I’m waiting 4 days or 3 weeks for my next release.

    Meanwhile before chastity my wife would cum maybe 2 times a month and now that she’s in control I’ve licked her the past 5 nights in a row while I’ve got nothing. She probably averages 15 sessions during her 28 day cycle and if you count multiple orgasms she’s probably up to about 45 - 50 cums every 28 days

    Our favorite part is just how ravenous I get when licking her now. I uncontrollably moan when licking her and she finds that very, very hot.
     
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    #100 TomInAustin, May 11, 2023

    I am on day 451 of forever. Yesterday we celebrated day 450 with some very light teasing. My take a way is the less I get the more I enjoy the touch
     
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