I’ve thought about chastity for many years and lately gave serious consideration to telling my wife about it. She is pretty conservative and does not seem to have a dominant bone in her body so I have been really hesitant to talk to her. Well….about a month ago (I think around 2/10/23) I finally had a conversation about it. I shared a book I found for vanilla wives and a couple of informative websites. She agreed to learn more about and keep an open mind. I am feeling somewhat optimistic because next time after the conversation we were intimate she teased me about being locked and her deciding if I get to cum or not. It was hot and a big step for her. I’ve not heard anything on the subject from her since so hopefully she is just getting used to the idea. I’m on her timeline now….just waiting to see what she says. Wish me luck, although I don’t know if I’m luckier if she locks me up or doesn’t Anyway, that is me and where I am in my journey.
Good luck! My wife is also conservative. I have tried to get her more involved, but she has been reluctant. I had to slow down the pace of experimentation.
Welcome, you’ve found the right place to hang out and learn more than you thought possible about chastity. Enjoy the journey and keep us posted
Welcome! You are having a great start. You can do a lot with teasing and denial before you get a cage. Start with that and see how things progress. If that works, let her help pick a cage out. Are you interested in chastity, or also FLR?
I am also interested in FLR but taking it slow so I don’t scare my wife I have committed to myself to have all the conversations, I just want her to be able to get used to one thing at a time. I hope chastity will naturally lead to some aspects of FLR
It takes some trial and error. You'd save some time by experimenting on your own before she is ready.