Do you & your partner sleep naked?

Discussion in 'Chastity in vanilla life' started by littleguy3, Jan 18, 2023.

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Do you and your partner sleep naked (except for the cage)?

  1. Yes - all of the time

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  2. Yes - some of the time

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  3. No or almost never

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  1. madams-sissysub
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    No, just cannot get to sleep naked, both Madam and I wear pajamas.
     
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    This is part of our deal for locking up. Unless she has a specific reason she sleeps naked and so do I. It’s my only request I have for her.
     
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    We occasionally sleep naked. I love feeling skin against skin as I drift off to sleep. Hubby has mixed feelings. He's very aroused by the idea, and then finds it difficult to actually fall asleep and spends a good portion of the night frustrated and awake. We still do it once in a while, but it has to be the right situation.

    More often, I'll ask hubby if he wants to join me for a nap. He knows we'll be naked, and that there's no chance of any "fun"... I will be fast asleep. But he usually says yes and then spends the next hour cuddling with me. I wake feeling incredibly refreshed and loved. Hubby also enjoys it, though I don't really understand why. Still, it has turned out to be a good way for me to get my "sleeping naked" fix.
     
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    Yes we both sleep naked with the exception of the cage on my cock and the keychain around his neck. We normally spoon, i'm big spoon and he normally nestles right in so that my cage is pressing between his cheeks. Not to tease me, I just think he finds it comforting.
     
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    Wife sleeps in her favorite lace pajamas, I’m usually naked except for the cage and sometimes a collar or some other restraints. She loves to be able to easily touch and feel the cage whenever she wants too as well as the visual. It drives me crazy.
     
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    If we are at home and in our own bed...We are both naked. Hotels or friends house we wear something to cover up.
     
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    I sleep naked all the time. My wife usually wears a nightgown or just panties. Me being naked gives her plenty of access to her property if/when she wants to use it.
     
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    No. I’ll sleep nude more often than she does. Usually we are both wearing panties and a shirt.
     
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    My wife and I have been sleeping naked together since the beginning of our chastity journey 1 year ago. Before that, we always wore PJs, her more so than me. We don't now because we have incredible intimacy now that my joystick is not part of the equation.

    Just the other day, I commented as we were going to bed "Man, I'm sleeping with a gorgeous, naked woman!" She appreciated the compliment. But later it hit me that my mindset was shifting a little to obectifying her instead of being focused on the whole person, maybe related to too frequent orgasms for me the past couple of months. We've talked and are going to correct that going forward. I like sleeping naked with her too much to risk messing things up between us.
     
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    I always sleep in the nude.
     
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    Lighten up on yourself, you and your wife are doing great. It's not objectifying her to give her a compliment about her physical beauty or your desire to be with her. People thrive on compliments and affirmation and that's why she liked the compliment. You praised her as a gorgeous woman -- a whole person -- not as a sex object.
     
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    You are exactly right! But my comment was in the context of a lot of others things that have been going on with me and how I've been behaving this week. She did love the compliment and she absolutely LOVES it when I tell her she's gorgeous and she LOVES that I'm attracted to her naked body. I explained the objectification angle to her and she totally understood.
     
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    If you think you objectified your wife with this, I should be concerned by my own behaviour…
    I just got back from work, took a while to take my coat off and got a mildly annoyed comment about taking too long to acknowledge my wife. Instead of understanding her emotions I waited until she bent down to fuss the dog and I simulated a sex act from behind her. She quite enjoyed it. Ok, our interactions maybe slightly less mature than most, but I like to think she felt desired :D
     
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    Ever since day one she was completely nude, I followed suit. I have been in several long term relationships and they all wore undies. This one didn’t so neither did I.

    A few times I have went to bed with undies on cause I was cold, she was like “what are you doing? Don’t you want to be naked around me or something?” They quickly came off, and now I wouldn’t bother no matter how cold it was lol.

    It used to be a bit fun being so naked and available for touching and cuddling, but now we have dogs that end up between us more often than not. Needing to push a couple stubborn dogs out of the way before any casual contact occurs lol.
     
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    I sleep naked, she wears a nighty, but then again I'm always naked while she is not.
     
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    I put yes most of the time since I sleep naked all the time and she does not. Sometimes she does if she came right from the shower or bath and its hot In The bed room. But she usually sleeps in panties and a tank
     
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    yes. and Mistress. i dont like clothes on in bed cos they wake you up when they gets all crumple up.
     
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    I have been sleeping naked since I was a teenager, but since about two or three years my wife forces me to sleep wearing silky nighties with lace, pink, red and white, five in total. And I love the feeling of them when I put them on, although sometimes I wake up because I feel too warm. The last year I have not been wearing a device but I have the feeling it will start again soon.
     
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    We’ve both slept naked most of our lives. Only thing that has changed over the course of our relationship is I sleep in a chastity cage.
     
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    We both started sleeping naked together when I started chastity and we restored intimacy in our relationship. And bot of us now prefer sleeping naked.

    Last night, she came to bed with a t-shirt on and I asked her "what's up with the t-shirt?" She said she needed to get warmed up first. I said "That's what I'm here for!" She said it would come off very soon, and it did. She said she hates wearing pajamas to bed now after 40+ years of marriage. This led to a conversation about who suggested we sleep naked at night. She insisted it was my idea. I couldn't remember. Maybe it was. But I was surprised that she didn't revert back to wearning pajamas over time.

    There's another thread about nudity & chastity on public beaches. There are several comments about how many of these beaches / resorts are dominated by older people / men. Why is it that as you grow older and your body is less attractive that you have less inhibition about being seen naked?
     
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    Always sleep naked except for steel cage.
     
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    I've been sleeping naked for almost 45 years now. I'm legit not even sure how people sleep with clothing on, but whatever. My GF is kind of wishy washy. She'll sleep naked a lot, but will also occasionally sleep in a pair of panties.
     
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    I always do as I am told to always be naked at home unless guests are over. She usually does as well, but sometimes she sleeps in pajamas because she likes the control of not letting me see or touch her naked body.
     
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    Iam required to sleep naked ,my gf is sleeping clothes ,night gown and panties
     
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    Property Of Di In service to the love of my life, Princess Di.

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    I have slept naked, every night - home or away - next to my owner, for the the past forty-four years. recently, she has started sleeping in the nude too...
     
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