I'm at day 30 without orgasm and starting to really feel that itch that cannot be scratched. My wife is rather routinely pushing my orgasms further and further out without hesitation. I asked her to become more stern and less permissive. She is at day 0 since she required me to orally service her last night. I marvel at how she proclaims "you're going to lick me" without any hint of guilt or need to reciprocate. I have made it known that I'm ready, eager and willing but I didn't even get a proper tease. She knows how much I love to have my head buried between her legs. "I hope you enjoyed yourself. That's what I'm giving you tonight." To think that my wife would ever get to this point and so thoroughly deny me while getting what she wants was never in my expectations. As I sit here typing this and wondering if this is truly what I wanted to happen, I can only feel the throbbing in my cage that reminds me that it is.
Sounds great Once they get past the guilt of not reciprocating, and realise that they can have as much pleasure and orgasms as they wish, things change.
Your so right the tease drops off and the denial kicks in , but to have the privilege to serve a beautiful mistress is out of this world , whilst being permanently caged and horny . As they say , be careful what you wish for .
My wife and I were just talking about this over dinner tonight. She remembered feeling guilty at first denying me an orgasm after she had teased me so much and gotten an orgasm of her own. Now she understands the real pleasure is in the journey. When we first started, she was taking full advantage and allowing me to please her almost every night. It was as if she was making up for lost time. Now she has slowed down and only allows it when she really wants it. She knows she can have it whenever she wants. The pressure to please me is gone and there is never any doubt about whether I'll be "up" for it.
The age old saying ( Be careful with what you wish for) lol I have been toying with the same Idea but it scares the hell out me to go that long without release, as far as servicing her I'd love to do it every night. I've already been cut to once a week and that for me is a huge change
Congratulations! My wife and I have now got me going 90 days between orgasms. It’s great serving our mistresses, whilst being in extended denial.
Hmmm... Friday night she decided that I needed some attention so gently and lazily rubbed my cage and down across my balls. There was no escalation but she just kept her hand on my cage or slowly made her presence known until she fell asleep. I was aroused but I knew it wasn't going anywhere so I tempered my response and just did some heavy breathing exercises. Saturday night she promises me some fun and having gotten some attention the night before my hopes were high. When we got to the bedroom a little later, she drops her pants and offers to let me lick her. ME: "Of course but what do I get?" HER: "You get to lick me," ME: "I know but it's been a month and last night was fun so I was hoping..." HER: "It's only been a month - you've gone longer than that. I could just get dressed again and then you won't even get to lick me. Your choice." God, I love her.