Pulling Out

Yeah, it's not for me either

 

Look into the headlock designs - I have heard good things. Mine arrives tomorrow! https://www.shapeways.com/shops/josielynn-s-body-jewellery

 

But after reading that article about damage to the penis I am second guessing the safety of the headlock......think I will try it only in the day for a few days to make sure that it doesn't cause damage. Anyway, use caution........don't do anything that can result in physical harm - including using chastity devices that can be unsafe, which could include the device I listed above.

 

The PA really works! & makes it impossible to pull out

 

Right you are…since my first stainless cage modified to confine me with a ring tight enough to keep it secure yet still comfortable and since it was upon my insistence that I be caged in the first place I have never attempted an escape, it is fruitless to escape or try to resist. Happy sub hubby I am pleased to be attempting year 5 locked in love!

 

I needed the PA to remove the temptation

 

I purchased this set a few months ago, but didn't really try them out until last night (after browsing this thread). I used the "B" medium size first and I was still able to pull out. After switching to the smallest "C" size I was not able to pull out. Yay! I wore it last night with minimal issue. Slightly uncomfortable, but one of those comfortable type of uncomfortable feelings if that makes any sense lol. In the morning urination was a little difficult. I wasn't able to produce a steady stream, but I was also semi erect. I suppose I'll need to be completed flaccid in order to urinate with this anti-pull out installed. I'm going to give it another go later today as this morning I was granted PIV and a period of freedom until this afternoon.

 

I recommend go for PA piercing. In my case pain was 0 of 5 scale. I can play with cock after 1 week...

 

@TheHeel I don't quite follow what this CB-X thing is, can you help explain it?

 

CB-X is a brand with a line up of chastity cages.
https://cb-x.com/about/

The CB-X Anti-Pullout is a separately sold attachment made specifically for CB-X manufactured chastity devices.
https://cb-x.com/product/cb-x-anti-pullout-blk/
The tip of the anti-pullout has a tab pointing downward which stops the penis glans from moving past it thus making it more difficult to "pull out" your penis from the device.

Hope this helps.

 

No the solution is not to pull it out it's about respect for your key holder, I'm sure I could pull out of mine if I wanted to but I wouldn't try it because I made a promise to my wife and I won't break it.

 

Agreed. And I've found that if the dynamic is working well, if I am well worked up and we're in good alignment together, it's easy to be super horny and committed to and focused on her. It's if that really breaks down that 'escape' becomes a consideration. In which case the problem is not about pulling out but communication and getting back in alignment.

I would bet I have at least 6 ways in the garage to easily break out of any kind of cage, ball trap, PA, etc, if I decided to.

The cage (Jailbird, too, in my case) is a reminder, a symbol and just enough of a deterrent to prevent that short-term impulse to play/stray.

Another way to look at it, any cage is more of a physical barrier to cheating than a wedding ring is, should you choose.

 

It's all in the head pulling out is cheating. Do you want to cheat? Probably not, so keep telling yourself it's wrong till it feels wrong, and you won't psychologically be capable of pulling out. I've had it slip off in the shower. Not arousing at all.

 

NAILED IT

 

Sorry, yeah, I know who CB-X are, I was just trying to ask how the anti-pullout thing works.

How does it attach to the cage? Do you have a photo of it in place?

 

The one I have goes over the spacer sleeve and then the cage it self slides on the sleeve and you add a lock after on the "pin"

I tried a couple of sizes and the med worked best. The small pushed down too hard.

Oh and the comment on the urination stream... I noticed I need to spend a bit more time "relaxing" to get complete relief and "empty" when I am caged. Particularly at night. could be due to overnight "attempted" erections (attempted because my HT 5 NUB pretty well put an end to all those).

 

Here ya go.

 

I see how it works now, thanks.

 

Boy, I read the title of this thread and thought a completely different thing. Because to everyone else but us, pulling out means something TOTALLY different...

 

Thanks for your advice, I got the information I wanted

 

I'm guessing it's a mutual agreement that that you're locked in chastity as such why would you want to pull out in the first place
It's about respecting both your KH , yourself and the rules you have both made

 

Are you continuing to use the anti-pullout? How is it working out for you? Have you been able to reach the point you can wear it 24x7?

 

You mean the allowed pulling out of her? Just to check my level of understanding.

 

Yes-instead of condoms people use the pull out method to avoid pregnancy.

 

Nope. Hate it. Going an honor system anti pull out.