Just out of curiosity what is sounding and do you do itand what does it do? I have seen sounding Rods in a sex shop but have no clue what they are for or how to properly use them.
So it’s a practice of putting “sounds” - which technically are medical dilators for the urethra - down the urethra for pleasure or torture or simply to stretch the urethra some. Basically taking a sterile, well lubricated steel rod and sticking it down your pee hole. Some masturbate with the sound in place, some “fuck” their penis with them, again all up to you. One thing I’ll stress is keeping things clean…very easy to get a urinary tract infection from this is you’re not careful.
I use surgical lubrication. It’s sterile. Also use an alcohol prep pad to clean the sound prior to use. You definitely don’t want a UTI. I use the 16” silicone. I can get to my prostate and cum almost immediately. It’s definitely a “different” sensation.
Sounding scared the crap out of me. It was a HELL NO. But like most things in the kink world, in time my curiosity overcame my fear and I found someone I trusted to try it with. I will say in my case it wasn't something I found to be overly erotic nor something high on my to do again list. That said, I wouldn't say no either. I guess it would depend. One thing trying sounds did do good for me is make it so I wasn't scared of the receiving tube when I got my Prince Albert.
I tried this the first time and ended up in the emergency room. Lots of blood and EXTREME pain peeing for days. Add to that a lot of embarrassment.......I would urge caution. Also, I didn't have a lot of great sensation and I went pretty deep and moved it around a lot.
I had an experience with a pro Domme. She was very careful about this. Lube, latex gloves. And feeling her way. Not pushing. The sound she had though was also a vibrating one. You can guess the result. Bottomline is though hurt is not good in that area. And I like pain. Safe, sane and consensual. No need to break things.
Definitely, being careful is a priority. Played around with sounding years ago, at first going inside no more than 1/8 of an inch. Experimenting with this gentle "probing" over time lead to "plunging" maybe 3-4 inches. Managed to also have a very intense "minimized orgasm" with a sound inserted, dribbling out a load without feeling the typical drop off in energy level. Would have never even thought about adding a vibrator into the mix, but have heard about a Dominatrix using a vibrating sound for a session... Sounds intense!
I was always against any type of urethral penetration and have advised against it in quite a few posts, but my Madam always wanted to try it. A few months ago Madam mentioned it again as it was in a porn clip we were watching and After going through the pandemic the last 2 years I thought fuck it! I said ok! Madam was thrilled and ordered a set of sounds, I got some sterile gloves and lube, and once the sounds arrived I sterilised them best I could and we were set. Madam unlocked me and I got cleaned up, then she cuffed my hands to the head board and she started, and wow!!!! What a sensation! Madam as I both loved it, she loved fucking my cock with the sounds and seeing them sink in to cock. she has said this is the only reason for her to touch my cock now.
A few times a year when my tube comes off for a deep cleaning, my wife likes to take the opportunity to sound me. She likes using the rose bud sounds, because they are about 12 inches long and based on the size she works up to. It reaches my prostrate and blocks the ejaculate from coming out. It’s a extremely pleasurable feeling going in, and I can’t control myself from eventually cumming. That’s when the pleasure turns to extreme frustration and somewhat pain as the cum is blocked and forced back and into my bladder. I don’t know if I could call it a ruined orgasm or just the consequences for ejaculating. It leaves me more frustrated and horny for weeks now. I’ve even asked Ms. to stop giving me them because the frustration is starting to drive me crazy. At this point, I’m just happy for a anal prostrate milking occasionally.
I've played a bit with small sounds and it's an interesting feeling mixed with a bit of discomfort (kind of a burning sensation). I haven't gone anywhere near deep enough to hit my prostate. If you want to try it, cleanliness is everything as is drinking lots of water before and after to flush any bad stuff.
OK - I'll be the one who claims ignorance here because this particular activity freaks me out so I have never considered it an option. Sounding feels good (or stimulates enough from the inside) to ejaculate? Inquiring minds want to understand.
Again, I've seen it in porn videos but for me there was literally no pleasure (and no pain until after I was done.....and started bleeding). I have an appointment scheduled with the doctor now because there was apparently damage done that might require surgery to fix. FYI, I have had painful experiences in the past, but nothing as extreme as peeing after this. Orgasm can be painful as well. Also, I don't pee in a solid stream any more. If you do this, which I would advise against, use a SMALL and sterile sound and do not force anything. Again, I do not recommend you try it. It sounds hot - but it is NOT worth it.
For me, it was less about how "good" it felt, and more about experiencing brand new sensations. Never would have imagined plunging deep enough to reach the prostate... Not my thing, but fascinating nonetheless. Really glad that you shared that negative experience to hopefully prevent others from going through the same thing.
I’ve done sounds many times, solo and with dommes. When the rod pushes past your prostate it feels amazing. Being masturbated and ejaculating around the sound is very intense as well. I concur on all the advice about cleanliness and being careful — I use those little packets of sterile lube and wipe off the tip of the penis and the sounds themselves with an alcohol swab. (Just be sure the alcohol has dried off before insertion.) Clean hands or latex gloves, too. It’s pretty hard for men to get UTIs if you use basic hygiene, but I did give myself one once when I inserted a catheter that was too large and caused a little trauma.
Absolutely you must make the scene as sterile as possible. Everything has risks. We have done this many times without any problems. Sometimes there’s a little blood. And yes, it will hurt to pee afterwords. Sometimes for a couple days. I drink plenty of water and cranberry juice afterwards. UTI’s aren’t fun, as I have had them. Play safely, your body will tell you if you can take it, or not. We have done this for years and it does feel amazing.