Hi, Tom here: 1st let me say I enjoy reading the situations and the stories on this site. Now let me tell you some things about me. I’m in a female dominated marriage. 30 + years but not always was she the Dom. At 23 I found out I had cancer. Testicular cancer. 1 was removed and between. Hemp and radiation I was left infertile. Wife stayed by my side and all through the years she has become more dominant. There is no sex in our lives even though I’m on hormones and ED pills. I get raging erections but she never wants to play. I can stop all the meds and gain weight, loose all interest in sex. I’ve also been thing about a chastity belt just to see what my wife’s reaction might be. Any ideas as to what type I’d need? Where to buy and with out balls would a charity device stay on?
Do you think to talk with a terapist ? Chastity kink cannot be a good solution. I see a lot of suffer on you comment
I would say discuss with her before you try. As you said she's been more dominant so maybe she will be into it. There are ways around the balls issue there are so many different kinds of cages and belts I'm sure if that's the right path you and your wife can find the right one together.
Springing things on a partner is usually not a good idea. Especially if you're already having issues with your relationship. And I'd say no sex is an issue. Personally, I'd work on your communication skills before you even think of exploring chastity. And a good way to do that is with some help. A good counselor can help. But even that may require some research and effort. I know when I was looking for my PTSD therapist it took months. And it took time to find someone that was right and not just available. So take your time. I know it's frustrating. But you've beat a killer. You're tough, and you'll make it through this. So kudos to you. And welcome. You'll find some good folks here. Some garbage posts. Some fantasy, and some odds and ends. But there's some folks that will help you along and become friends if you stay around.