Question. Should an accidental Ruined Orgasm count as a proper Orgasm? I was 2 weeks shy of 6 months zero orgasm. I was trying on a condom for sizing purposes. I was gonna allow annual orgasm in condom in a chastity cage. When all of a sudden condom on half way Orgasm with no stroke or touching. So should I count it as an Orgasm and start over or just continue on my year of no orgasms and not consider it an Orgasm. Thanks for replying!
I’m going to go against the grain here and say no. It shouldn’t be counted as it was as you said, accidental and ruined. And as long as you did not receive any type of pleasure from it, just a discharge sensation akin to passing water.
I don't think it matters much, don't overthink it. Not sure if you have a partner involved... if you do the answer is pretty obvious... if you don't have a partner, I'd probably take another crack at it!
I think any discharge can be plotted on the "orgasm scale", and if you want to be really strict it counts. But what if you had a discharge in the cage while sleeping (yes, it happens). Does that mean you have to "start over"? Of course not, nor should this. Just know its a shades of gray kind of thing and if you did not intend it or do anything to bring it on, forgive yourself and carry on. I don't even know why these goals are so important to us guys (myself included). Take a mulligan (but if it happens again then you were playing with it, LOL).
No , if there was no overt stimulation it wouldn't count for me. It's the conviction behind the chastity that really matters. Good luck.
Personally I’m more bemused why you would try a condom on just for sizing… asking for trouble. That aside, it shouldn’t matter about our opinion if there was no intent it only matters on how you feel about it. Either way you have a story just like you would if you managed 6 months.