Burning / tightness

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    #1 MissAmysPlayThing, Sep 8, 2022
    Hoping someone can offer some advice.

    We have a few different cages but similar issues with all. This particular one is by far the best however my balls hang so high and the "tubes" are so short that my balls are basically in the gap between the ring and cage.

    I also get a pretty intense burning sensation under the ring, that's managed by using lube every few hours but that's a bit of a pain!

    Anyone got some advice? Is there a specific cage I could buy which is better desgiend for someone who's balls are literally in line or higher than their cock?

    Budget isn't a concern so open to any suggestions.

    Thanks
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    #2 ChasteJase, Sep 8, 2022
    I'm no expert but I've had similar problems and I'll start the conversation. Here are my thoughts:
    1) The gap between your ring and cage is likely too tight
    2) the ring on that cage has a lot of surface area. A thinner round ring may help.
    3) If that ring is not well polished it is likely creating more surface area to rub and burn
    4) plucking the hairs on your scrotum around the ring could help (others may disagree)
     
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    #3 MissAmysPlayThing, Sep 8, 2022
    Oh god, don't tell @MissAmy to pluck hairs out of me
     
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    #4 ChasteJase, Sep 8, 2022
    It's not bad at all!
     
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    #5 King Hippo, Sep 8, 2022
    Most likely this is from too small of a gap between your ring and cage... but I wouldn't be using lube to fix this...

    Try something like Neosporin to heal it up instead...

    There is also a chance you need to find the right ring shape for you... I like rings made 1/4 inch steel, some like them flattened out, some like different shapes.... You gotta find what works for you, then get a good custom device.
     
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    #6 MissAmysPlayThing, Sep 8, 2022
    This ring is not round and it's much better than the round ones I have.

    There's nothing to heal up, I have checked and no visible redness or sores. The pain is very mild if I apply lube. The cage is slightly too big too which doesn't help I'm sure.

    The ring may be too small, I can't get a finger under the ring, should I be able to?

    If I were to buy a custom cage, what's the recommendation? I don't have a PA and don't intend on getting one.
     
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    #7 ChasteJase, Sep 8, 2022
    You want to be able to at least get a finger to the first knuckle under the ring and your skin. If you can't even get that, it's too tight. I know the red burning you are talking about as I get it too. I usually get it in the morning when my sack is high and tight. It goes away after I remove the cage and usually doesn't occur again if I put it back on later in the afternoon.
     
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    #8 MissAmysPlayThing, Sep 9, 2022
    Okay, in that case the ring is definitely too small.

    I've had this on about 36 hours now, it's no issue at all when I'm sat on the sofa.

    Unsure when she'll be unlocking me, but presumably at the weekend.
     
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    #9 madams-sissysub, Sep 9, 2022
    I agree, your base ring is to small, that’s why there burning, try the next size up.
     
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    #10 MissAmysPlayThing, Sep 9, 2022
    I have a plastic cage with many options for ring and gap, when she unlocks me we'll try those out. Today though I've got on pretty well, I've not had any issue and no lube needed other than after my shower this morning.

    What I've realised is that if I seem to end up with excess skin on the arse side of my ring, if I pull they through so my balls are loser I don't experience the burning. I presume if the ring was slightly bigger then that would happen more naturally and I'd not need to force the skin through.

    I've always said that my cages were just another kinky sex tool in our drawer, but having worn this for 48 hours now, I'm a little confused about what I actually want as I don't have any desire for her to unlock me.

    I think she has broken me!
     
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    #11 ChasteJase, Sep 9, 2022
    I have experienced that same skin on the arse side of the ring. I have a custom cage coming and I hope I got it right. I actually went smaller on my ring and bigger on the gap and hope that fixes it. Everyone I know who swears by comfort has gone pretty small on the ring. However, you should be able to get a finger to the first knuckle in there. It sounds like you are 1 or 2mm away from having the right size. I still think your gap is too small as well.
     
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    #12 MissAmysPlayThing, Sep 9, 2022
    Yeah, my gap is too small. I hope this plastic cage I have will help me size properly.

    What cage did you order?
     
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    #14 BloatedBalls, Sep 11, 2022
    I have the same issue, But I find using vasoline works. Its real thick and last a while. But it does have its downside as well.
     
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    #15 bemfem, Sep 11, 2022
    I had to use an ointment early, but adjusted to chastity very well, so I don't use it almost at all. Maybe just before night and that is all. I do wake up from nocturnal erection sometimes, but go pee and right back to bed. I am in chastity 24/7 and have no issues at all.
     
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    #16 MissAmysPlayThing, Sep 11, 2022
    Thanks for the advice. It certainly got easier as the days went on.
     
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    I ordered a BAW-01 from Badass Workroom. It actually arrives today!
     
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