Hello all, fairly new here. I brought up the topic of chastity with my wife a few months back and she thought it a bit weird and odd. However we talked it through and we bought our first device. Since then I have been self locking for a few days at a time and removing before sex. Things slowly progressed to the point where we had non piv sex a couple of times, which we both enjoyed, but she was still uncomfortable with me not cumming. So we carried on as before with normal sex but me still wearing the cage in between. We kept on discussing it and she’s read some articles including the secret to a happy marriage, to the point where she understands it a bit better. Last week after some great vanilla sex, I didn’t bother putting the cage back on for a few days, at then, out of the blue, she asked why I wasn’t wearing it! Well that got me exited and I immediately went upstairs and put it on (after a fight to get it to soften a bit!). That happened on Wednesday. This morning we woke and I started rubbing her thighs and moved on to her clit until she was getting really horny, and I was expecting her to ask me to remove the cage and fuck her. Instead she turned to me and said “you’re not taking that off!”. She grabbed her vibrator and told me to pleasure her with it, “it’s what you want isn’t it?”, which I gladly did until she orgasmed hard. We then cuddled for a bit with my cock wanting to burst from its cage. So it seems she is starting to take charge of me and my orgasms now which I find thrilling. I’ve been locked now for 4 days and not orgasmed for 8 days. Still early days, but an exiting adventure lays ahead.
That is the new sex, boy.. embrace it.. continue with the build up, go by her wish.. thank the heavens you have a brilliant wife insisting the chastity on you while seeking full pleasures for herself.. After several times of she gaining orgasm at the expense of you being denied, she will make it THE way…
Hi, thanks for all the replies. The last couple of days haven’t really gone to plan. We went away for a couple of days which involved a 4 hour drive. Whilst I was caged for the whole journey, things got uncomfortable and then painful by the we arrived, so she allowed me to unlock which brought some relief. My balls were slightly swollen and painful so we decided to leave the cage off and went out for the evening. Things calmed down by the morning, so we then had full on sex which was great, but there was no mention of chastity. Of course my orgasm was really intense (9 days since the last), but now feel a crap. We are now back home (another 4 hour drive) and I remain uncaged. I think I have a poorly fitting device, the main problem being the base ring is too small?
Driving any sort of distance while caged is generally not a comfortable experience for me. I find that opening my flies, and removing my caged dick and balls from their confines helps to significantly ease the pressure on my balls. I just have to be aware that truck drivers may be able to notice my caged dick resting on my lap! So, I wouldn't necessarily assume a poor fitting device, especially if it's comfortable the rest of the time.
Well, I gave up on the metal cage yesterday, I found it too tight around the balls. Last night I glued my broken knock off cobra cage back together and tried that on with a bigger ring and it fitted perfectly and felt really comfortable. There is some rubbing where the glue joins are though. So it looks like I need to find myself a new cage.
Update. It’s been seven days since my last orgasm and I feel great. After messing about with various cages, I’ve settled on the ht4 with the largest ring, We both went out on Friday, she allowed me to go unlocked, which was fine. Saturday morning we woke and she wanted sex, so I duly obliged! However, my full concentration was on her pleasure and after she had a strong orgasm, she stopped and said “that’s it, you’re not cumming today”! I nearly came there and then! After some mundane conversation, which allowed my cock to subside slightly, she then says “you’d better lock that thing up”. That made me instantly hard again, but after a while, I was locked! That was Saturday morning, it’s now Monday evening now and I’ve been locked since.
Boy, you learn your place soon enough.. sex is for her, orgasm is for her, pleasure is for her.. the dick is just a facilitator, as in any other dildos, vibes or the lowly tongue. Keep the dick soft and ready for its next task.. it gets a calling enter the holy pussy if you have been celibate enough.. or some lashings if you havent.
I thought I might update my story so far. The end of September I mentioned to my good lady about locktober. She agreed to give it a try, so I was duly locked on the 31st of September. This time she kept the key with her phone and hid the spare key. This time she was serious! She kept her word and didn’t unlock me for the whole month, whilst I was getting more and more horny! She had lots of orgasms with me using her wand and vibrator on her at least two or three times a week (it’s normally only once or twice a week) but she did say that she missed me inside her. I was finally let out on the 2nd of November and we had great sex, and I lasted longer than I thought. I had such an intense orgasm, but only after she came. I had a bit of “the drop” afterwards, which she noticed. After the usual sex last Saturday, whilst watching TV later in the evening, she just tapped my groin and asked why aren’t you locked? That was so hot! So I duly locked up and went to put the key back into her phone case when she said that she would rather wear it on a chain around her neck! So we found one and, since Saturday, I’ve been locked and she is now wearing the key around her neck! Things have certainly progressed during these last few months. I just want to please her all of the time and she seems to have noticed my change in behaviour and is starting to take control of my dick. I’m exited and nervous as to where this is heading, but I’m enjoying it so far!
The psychological benefits are strong as she goes down this path bringing you along. It’s been five years since my princess accepted my indenture and my desires to please her grow with her domination over me…she makes sure I stay caged.