Treating women with respect

A beautiful woman who is also technically adept, is not to be underestimated. I doff my chapeau to the quality you maintain on this site, technically and behaviorally. Bravo.

 

One message on this forum, and you are calling people out? Nice to meet you.

 

i thought it was ok to post pics, not neccesarily private but being a male i wouldnt bark at anyone sending me any type of pics, male or female, all adds to the fun

 

Aye.

 

Lol. I'm verified.

 

Lisa Miller, your a great big phony.

Obviously L-u-c-y is the owner of this site. She has that bright yellow box by her name.
And as for goddess li, she allows me to sleep beside her as she not just a lady. Shes a very special lady.

 

Okay, back to the regularly scheduled program, 'Treating Women With Respect'. I have to throw out there it is not just DP pictures that turn the ladies off. What about the derogatory words that are often said to the ladies in private, even public. Those are just as bad as a picture, sometimes worse. I like to think that most men treat the women here with respect. Obviously not.

Mistress does not come here all that often. Even though now she is having a ball with the chastity aspect. I know she has received some piggish and unsolicited crap. Both in pictures and in writing. How many other ladies, even though strong in their nature and very dominant, stop coming here due to such actions by the few.

I doubt there are 10% that behave like a bore. Yet those do have such a negative effect on the community. Just my two cents worth.

 

This being a chastity site, i would expect to see dicks in cages and out of cages differentiating being locked and unlocked, so i'm not at all surprised and i like to see how big dicks and little dicks look in different cages, If people are on here i wouldnt expect them to be offended by dick pics, even if PM'd !

 

This is what you like, and the boundaries you have for yourself.
Trust me when I say this: IF I want to see any kind of penis, I know exactly where I can find atleast one.
Don`t go around assuming that everyone shares your point of view, or boundaries.
For the record: I do not want to see your penis without me asking to see it first!

 

I don't see any reason at all to send dick pictures--locked or unlocked--to people who have not requested them, even on this site.

Consent is key.

 

You can post locked and unlocked dick pictures in the galleries without any problem.

 

I dont know what the worlds coming to...PC, Woke, Meme, snowflakes, people cant seem to do anything now without offending someone, not so long ago none of these words even existed....My feelings are that if people are offended by dicks in chastity they shouldnt really be joining a chastity site, I'm not commenting on this anymore and wont post any more pics in the forums for fear of offending someone, and i think its a pity.
Some people have no pictures in there gallery, so how do we even know if they are really interested in chastity, they may just be voyeurs or lurkers!
Rant over, The end.

 

I can't even imagine sending an unsolicited dick pic to a woman, that's ridiculously offensive. Even my wife's potential lovers on dating sites ask me, then her, if it's appropriate to send that kind of stuff. My Wife absolutely loves getting dick pics from those guys, but it's on her terms and she invited it.

Dudes, if you are sending random unsolicited pics to women, you need to get that shit chopped off end of story. You are sick.

And watching Lucy and internet trolls is like watching a cat play with a ball of yarn. Don't fuck with the cat, you'll get the claws.

 

It's a humbling reality for us men to realize that women are not excited about our penises like us men are. I dare say the majority of women are put off by the image of a penis, they just don't want to see them.

A large part of being in chastity is learning to respect first our woman, and women in general, submitting our desires to theirs.

 

Sorry that you have to deal with awful behavior like this guy. It can be embarrassing to see how men act.

Then I remember: I used to be that asshole, myself. And it's not fun to realize that. On the other hand, it means that there is still hope for anyone.

 

It's about consent.

No one was talking about galleries or forums. Obviously, by being on this site, there is some implicit consent (subject to the site rules) about the public galleries and the public forums. People visiting here can choose which galleries that they look at, and which forums they peruse.

This topic is about unsolicited DMs. Direct messages. An unsolicited dick pick as a direct message is having someone shove their penis into your face. If you consent to having someone shove their penis into your face, fine. That is your choice. Your right to consent.

Please respect the right of other people to not consent to having someone shove a penis into their face.

 

I didn’t even bother dignifying him with a response. It’s ironic that we’re dealing with this on a thread that’s about chaste men treating women with the utmost respect.

 

They might be, and that's just fine.

 

Obviously you don't either.

 

Wow, did this thread go off the rails in a hurry. Kudos to @Proud to be chaste for speaking his mind. Even to some of the contrarian views when thoughtfully replied, and of course to @L-u-c-y for calming the waters despite the blowhards.

As for my opinion on the OP: I learned an important lesson when I created an AFF page for my wife to look for a girlfriend with benefits. I think she is looking to tease me and/or get some sort of "chastity wives club" going. Cool. Despite me writing it for her, advising that this was a woman looking for women, despite warning guys very clearly "NO DICK PICS", etc... take one guess what 95% of the responses are? Nine-inch-Nick with his dick pic (and only that), offering to abuse her wildly with his manhood. When she (I) remind them to re-read the profile we get an "oh yeah, but do you want to fuck?" more often than not. It was funny at first. Then disgusting. Now depressing. I know its the internet, but 95%? Is this men in general? We can do better than that! After a while you start to wonder if all guys are just as disgusting, with the nicer ones just being better salesmen. I don't think I was that bad BC and welcome @Proud to be chaste 's reminder to us all to help raise the bar.