A Top Friend of mine asked me to list the rewards of positive reinforcements i get for being in chastity. I wrote out a response, but in short, for me, the rewards are very broad, things like "knowing MistressAMA is in control" and "it keeps me ready and eager to please my Mistress". As She does more Top/bottom scene-based play, i suspect She was thinking on a more tangible level, like "for x days caged, I get y". If anyone has such specific or tangible rewards, would you please share them so i can add that to my response? Much appreciated!! asa
None. As in, nothing "earned" by chastity. It's just the opposite: no masturbation no women on the side obviously: fewer orgasms less control ... over anything and everything lots more work and chores and duties The real reward is the joy I get from pleasing her. That makes everything worthwhile, and so much more so.
Still new at this so not sure all the rewards, but after my first full week in chastity I had the best, most satisfying sex I've ever had in my life. And that was before she pegged me and let me orgasm.
My reward is knowing that Missy is in control of our sex life and that once we get past this vasectomy requirement thing and are back to normal our love life will be wonderful again. The chastity has no "No quid Pro quo" character to it. It is just our tool for making certain Missy decides when we just make love or she maybe gets an oral orgasm and when we make that love that culminates in mutual orgasms. When things are normal, hat happens about once a week. It is always because she wants it. The love making the other nights is about the intimacy and closeness. Even when we share those mutual orgasms, it is about the intimacy. The orgasm is just the frosting on the cake. It is fantastic frosting but the cake is still that feeling of being so close. Fortunately there is a lot more cake then frosting. The frosting lasts for but a moment but the taste of the cake lingers for the whole next day. Unfortunately, our first years I only wanted the frosting and didn't enjoy the cake the way I should have.